ColinUK
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Think of it as less raw and more cured, like smoked salmon.I can do spicy no problem, not sure about the raw though. 😳
Think of it as less raw and more cured, like smoked salmon.I can do spicy no problem, not sure about the raw though. 😳
He his intellect and humility from me of course!Forget others, however guilty it makes you feel, YOU are the priority here. I know it’s difficult, I rarely put myself first, but you really can’t go on as you are, can you?
On another note. What a clever nephew you have, sounds like a real boffin. Looking forward to hearing all about his progress and your shameless boasting. 😛
As long as you have fun and enjoy your meal.Not this one I don’t think, it’s a tiny place! But you just reminded me that I have ate Japanese food, in Jamaica. I was staying at a Sandals resort ( I was one of a dozen travel agents on a fam trip, hard work but someone had to do it) and one night we had a show night where they were throwing bits of meat and fish about and chopping them up in the air. Not sure any of us actually got anything to eat, it was all over the place!
Sending you hugs!Morn8ng
9.8 after a carb binge yesterday, have very blurry eyes this morning, am so ashamed of my binge I nearly didn’t post this morning. My mental health is really getting the better of me at the moment
@Gwynn - congratulations on your HS.
@ColinUK - weigh up the pros and cons and do what is best for your mental health.
I loved Calgary!I used to go to Japan a lot. Food was either relatively cheap and unappetising, (think sausages on sticks) or really lovely but excuciatingly expensive! Julian and I had a superb meal one time (in latter years we flew together on married rosters), cooked at the table for us by a lady in full Japanese kimono. It consisted of thin slices of beef cooked in broth and eggs. Can't remember what it was called, but there was no raw fish to be seen. The most painful thing about that (apart from the bill) was having to kneel on the floor!
@Wendal - be grateful you did not choose to spend 3 years studying in Calgary - it was the most boring and uninviting city I ever visited!
@Gwynn, congrats on your HS.
I bet you were not there on a winter Sunday when the city was completely deserted and nothing at all was open, not a shop, restaurant or bar and not even the cinema! It's probably changed now, I was last there in the early 80s.I loved Calgary!
Ugh - that Police request must have been horrible, almost like they were pushing the blame onto you. No wonder you are suffering. I can't help feeling that the Police are just making everything worse.@Pattidevans I knew that my absence and when I have been here my lack of conversation etc wouldn’t have gone unnoticed.
At the start of the week I just couldn’t even begin to put into words what was going on in my head.
I’m pleased that now I can and I can open up and move forward processing my thoughts and feelings etc.
Throw into the mix that last Friday I had my three month check in with my therapist (we’re half way through a 6 month pause) and that was the final straw really. Lots of things came up that I hadn’t been prepared for and without him there this week that’s been scary.
Also police requested SAR for full medical records and therapy notes from every single therapist I’ve seen since 1999, those notes coming to me, my having to read them and then send them on is also tough.
Obviously still dealing with the folks getting old and their inevitable deaths is not easy when you live alone as there’s no one to share the burden with. So it’s all on my shoulders. Or so it seems.
I feel you.
I have eaten unwise choices this week. You’re far from alone.
Hopefully our mental health improves for both of us soon.
Sending you hugs.@Pattidevans I knew that my absence and when I have been here my lack of conversation etc wouldn’t have gone unnoticed.
At the start of the week I just couldn’t even begin to put into words what was going on in my head.
I’m pleased that now I can and I can open up and move forward processing my thoughts and feelings etc.
Throw into the mix that last Friday I had my three month check in with my therapist (we’re half way through a 6 month pause) and that was the final straw really. Lots of things came up that I hadn’t been prepared for and without him there this week that’s been scary.
Also police requested SAR for full medical records and therapy notes from every single therapist I’ve seen since 1999, those notes coming to me, my having to read them and then send them on is also tough.
Obviously still dealing with the folks getting old and their inevitable deaths is not easy when you live alone as there’s no one to share the burden with. So it’s all on my shoulders. Or so it seems.
Agree about Japanese food - went there a couple of times when I had a proper job. I think the meal you described is a variant of Shabu Shabu. We sat round a big pot of boiling water and plates of all sorts were brought out and you selected stuff and dipped it in the pot to cook it. At the end, the water in the pot was ladled into bowls and drunk by the company. The bill, which seemed to depend on the number of plate of Kobi beef consumed was horrific! Did you ever try Tepanyaki where you had your own chef who cooked individual items on a hot plate?I used to go to Japan a lot. Food was either relatively cheap and unappetising, (think sausages on sticks) or really lovely but excuciatingly expensive! Julian and I had a superb meal one time (in latter years we flew together on married rosters), cooked at the table for us by a lady in full Japanese kimono. It consisted of thin slices of beef cooked in broth and eggs.
They're very careful to not do that. But it does feel like it is what they're doing sometimes.Ugh - that Police request must have been horrible, almost like they were pushing the blame onto you. No wonder you are suffering. I can't help feeling that the Police are just making everything worse.