There was one that was particularly painful because we'd been planning a future together, so it hit me pretty hard. After a couple of miserable weeks I decided I needed to get rid of everything associated with us - photos, cards, gifts she'd given me and so on - everything went in the bin. It felt like a cleansing and afterwards I felt able to move on.Any advice to cope in the beginning? I'm curious for a different perspective. The few friends and relatives I have informed suggest chocolate and crying (both of those will be applied in appropriate doses).
Oddly enough that break-up was the only time I've been inspired to write poetry. I sent it to her and was told afterwards that she cried when she read it. I can still recite it word-for-word, 42 years on.Morning all and 6.1 for me
@Elenka_HM do you write poetry, it doesn't matter how bad it is or if you ever show it to anyone else. I got pretty much a whole albums worth of material from being dumped. Miserable songs but great therapy.