Aah thank you! No I don't think so - we've found a really nice local firm who can do it which I do think makes all the difference. She's coming down here to be with us for Christmas with my nieces so that will be lovely. Although my brother was called Robin and everything this Christmas seems to have a Robin on it (and he loved coming to us for Christmas) so it will be odd but I'm sure we'll all talk about him and raise a glass on Christmas Day.It's not at all boring @zippyjojo! Will your sister in law come back down for the actual removal?
Nice that you did some reminiscing with him but shame that it was just the two of you as I think it needs a 3rd person to laugh and cry in such situations. Easy to cry on your own and be melancholy but harder to remember the funny times and have a laugh without someone else to stimulate those thoughts and memories.... You also probably end up looking a bit mad laughing in a car when essentially you look to be on your own.Aah thank you! No I don't think so - we've found a really nice local firm who can do it which I do think makes all the difference. She's coming down here to be with us for Christmas with my nieces so that will be lovely. Although my brother was called Robin and everything this Christmas seems to have a Robin on it (and he loved coming to us for Christmas) so it will be odd but I'm sure we'll all talk about him and raise a glass on Christmas Day.Maybe you should
I did worry that people would be concerned seeing me blubbering at traffic lights - but it was good to get it out. We're scattering his ashes in three different places (he'd be fine with that!). One lot with my Dad who died when we were young; one lot that his wife and girls will scatter at their new home - or rather somewhere in that area, where we'll all hopefully be too and the last lot up on the Isle of Harris which is very special to all of us. We also had a little bit put into a tin and his wife and girls are going to have a piece of jewellery each made with it in. And yes - he'll be here in the glass cabinet in the dining room on Christmas Day 🙂Nice that you did some reminiscing with him but shame that it was just the two of you as I think it needs a 3rd person to laugh and cry in such situations. Easy to cry on your own and be melancholy but harder to remember the funny times and have a laugh without someone else to stimulate those thoughts and memories.... You also probably end up looking a bit mad laughing in a car when essentially you look to be on your own.
I love that he is called Robin and there will be so many robins at Christmas time.
What are the plans for his ashes? Do you know? I hope he spends Christmas with you before being scattered.