eggyg
Well-Known Member
- Relationship to Diabetes
- Type 3c
Morning again. 6.2.
It’s like Groundhog Day. MIL still with us. She’d been very agitated with his two brothers after our night shift and when Mr E went at 1pm she’d been pumped fill of drugs and was a bit calmer, that didn’t last long and it all started again. But she was definitely weakened and wasn’t quite able to fling herself about or throw her bedcovers off. She was wincing and it turns out she was in pain, her left leg had turned a yellowish colour. Pain killers administered. At about 5pm she settled and it was thought it was time. He called his brothers, by 8pm it was clear she wasn’t going anywhere. Mr Eggy came home. One brother said he’d stay for a couple of hours, it had been decided between them that they don’t think this 24 hour vigil is working and they’re “enabling” her to stay. As far as we know no one was going to stay overnight. Whether that happened we don’t know. Mr Eggy getting ready now to go to the care home. I don’t think I’ve ever wanted someone to die so much, in a good way. It’s putting a lot of stain on the whole family, I’m fielding calls, texts, messages all day. We’re all so tired, meals and bedtimes are all over the place, we don’t know what day it is, concentration is just a thing of the past. I know I’ve said it everyday this week, but how much longer can she hang on for?
Thanks for all your well wishes and “ listening” to me rambling on about it everyday. I really do appreciate it.
Hope your day is everything you wish for.
It’s like Groundhog Day. MIL still with us. She’d been very agitated with his two brothers after our night shift and when Mr E went at 1pm she’d been pumped fill of drugs and was a bit calmer, that didn’t last long and it all started again. But she was definitely weakened and wasn’t quite able to fling herself about or throw her bedcovers off. She was wincing and it turns out she was in pain, her left leg had turned a yellowish colour. Pain killers administered. At about 5pm she settled and it was thought it was time. He called his brothers, by 8pm it was clear she wasn’t going anywhere. Mr Eggy came home. One brother said he’d stay for a couple of hours, it had been decided between them that they don’t think this 24 hour vigil is working and they’re “enabling” her to stay. As far as we know no one was going to stay overnight. Whether that happened we don’t know. Mr Eggy getting ready now to go to the care home. I don’t think I’ve ever wanted someone to die so much, in a good way. It’s putting a lot of stain on the whole family, I’m fielding calls, texts, messages all day. We’re all so tired, meals and bedtimes are all over the place, we don’t know what day it is, concentration is just a thing of the past. I know I’ve said it everyday this week, but how much longer can she hang on for?
Thanks for all your well wishes and “ listening” to me rambling on about it everyday. I really do appreciate it.
Hope your day is everything you wish for.