I totally agree with Northeners original post. Several times I had responses that were inappropriately harsh, sarcastic or written in a way that could make a person feel stupid - luckily I’m not easily upset. So I decided not to use the forum for quite a while. I’ve come back now and will see what happens. Having said that most people are lovely, polite, helpful, funny but it just took a few to make me decide to,move on.