Late posting, didn’t post yesterday had a upsetting situation with my estranged sister, my dad passed away recently, I wasn’t aware until after as she chose to keep me in the dark.
My brother phoned me and told me his estate was to be shared between the 4 of us, his house had already been sold in April when he went into a care home.
Long story short, my sister had been pleading poverty for years saying dad had no money and his house would have to be sold to keep up the care home payments, I had a massive shock when my brother told me how much his estate was worth once any debts were settled, he couldn’t understand why I wasn’t told , anyway my other sister I don’t have much to do with either apparently also knew.
Then out of the blue I got a message from my estranged asking for my permission to take dads estate to probate she and my other sister are his exectors, I asked her why I hadn’t been informed about his estate and asked her to confirm what my brother had said, she refused but said if I didn’t agree, as all 4 us us need to then it could go on her years, I simple said I deserved the courtesy to be told what my brother had said. she said she hadn’t told anyone anything, I am afraid I saw red and said unless she tells me I wouldnt agree, in the end my brother was fuming with her and my other sister phoned me crying and saying she didn’t care about the money etc, long rant ….. I asked her if what our brother said was true she also said she wouldn’t tell me so I lost it and put the phone down .. shortly after she phoned back and said she had asked my estranged sister for the details and told her in her opinion I would not agree to let her apply for probate. unless I knew officially what all the details were and she told me everything, believe me that’s the short version she kept messaging me over and over she was desperate to get me to agree, I still don’t know why she was so adamant other than she has to control everyone and everything her why or nothing at all, I haven’t any pleasure in saying ive won this battle but for once she has had to do what I wanted, sorry for the rant I didn’t do my BS yesterday and forgot my insulin but this morning it was 5.8 again sorry I will get off my soap box now