eggyg
Well-Known Member
- Relationship to Diabetes
- Type 3c
Thanks Patti. The hospital called this morning with a time so he started WhatsApping his brothers. Bloody phone them, said I. (I’m tired and cranky.) You can’t gauge a person’s demeanour through a message, a comma in the wrong place or not in place at all can make a big difference! He did!give Brian big hugs. I can empathise with what's going on as we went through something similar with MIL. It's very unpleasant. We still barely speak to J's older brother, though J and the younger one are very close. All you can do is stand by his side and I know that is what you will do.
Youngest brother meeting him at care home, other brother babysitting grandson and will come when he can. I could bang their damn heads together! Now if MIL had daughters too how different would it be? In my experience of boys ( I’m not saying every male is rubbish at it) ie Mr Eggy and his five brothers, three are half brothers, MILs stepsons, one died, two live away so no help, communication is sadly lacking. Unfortunately their parents were not big on communication either. It’s taken nearly 50 years to train him up. Hopefully when she’s settled they can settle. No more caring for her, doing her shopping paying her bills organising her meds docs appointments, well everything really, they can get back to being sons and brothers.
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