Hi Sugarbum et al
Great to hear from you. All's well this end. E returned on the floor with exhaustion, but at 8mmols! Stayed on temp basal last night, a hypo last thing (mash through too quickly, we now wonder?), woke on 11. Now switched to our weekend pattern with the addition of some lowered basal rates for the heat, and levels are good, 5-7mmols.
The french trip from his perspective is another story, really, will tell soon. He didn't send us all the info -- not to do with his management, but to do with how the teachers did or didn't look after him. We were a bit let down. He did so well though, and throughout, his numbers were really pretty decent, with the busiest day unsurprisingly being the most variable, swinging from 12 to hypos (3 of them, eek). But he managed. When I heard the lack of support he'd had to endure, well... No one reminded him about anything. He did it all himself. One teacher (not the one we'd primed!!!) checked in with him at meals, and to her credit, also reminded him about testing when swimming, actually bringing the kit to him, which was very nice. BUT the teacher he'd set out to depend on said *not one word* to him about diabetes, nor did he enquire about how he was generally. I was FUMING. Still am. And he is also cross.
ANYWAY. All that aside, I think he is now seeing that he did it, that all is well, and that he is quite capable of working his way through most situations. He said that he kept the messiest suitcase by far, but that his bedside was most organised: testing kit, glucose, juice, mobile phone -- all right there. Good boy! We can forgive him the complete chaos he's arrived home with -- lancets everywhere, rubbish just all over his stuff...oh well. Teenagers!
And frankly, he is entitled to a bit of disorgansition, when in so much he has to be organised...
To answer your question Sugarbum, we have not yet progressed to senors or using Contour meter. He likes Optium exceed at the moment, and doesn't find putting the bgl in any great hardship, just one more step, he says.
We will be getting a sensor, though; it has come as part of the PCT package, though we have yet to physically get it. One thing at a time. He wants it, though we are a *little* fearful of him feeling just 'medicalised' out...It'll ultimately be his decision though. He's a gadgety person, and it may help him feel safe in all kinds of situations. He's confident, but likes control (hmm, wonder where he gets that from?).
The small increments will become clear once you start on the insulin, I'm sure. It's just a different system, and each person is sensitive in different ways. E responds to 0.05 of a unit -- others work on units at a time.
Also, once you start with a baseline, it becomes much easier to imagine how to work it. I really thought I was simply *not* going to get it, from the outside. But actually, it makes a logical sense. It's a closed system, not endlessly variable and strange -- much like MDI in that way, but just hugely more flexible and immediately able to be adjusted.
E's dad not only has confidence, he has more than I do. From the beginning we have been in this together, and his understanding of the systems has always outstripped mine. We have different strengths when it comes to dealing with diabetes -- but the truth is, E has utter trust in his father, who brings all of his formidable intelligence and evenness of spirit to the management of it all. I'm much more reactionary, and liable to be overwhelmed. I'm also more instinctive, which has at times also been very useful in the management of E's diabetes -- not just with the pump.
We are lucky. We complement each other. And his sister, despite being younger, also understands much. We try our best to make loads of room and special time for her too. When the boys were gone, she and I shopped and got manicures for the first time ever (like your pedicure Mand! How are you?)! Then lay in the sun. Had a pizza. 'No carb counting', she said. A nine year old. Times like that are important....
Anyway. I digress. Let me know how you find the Contour, whether it's worth it?