We all make our choices.
We all find reasons to believe or disbelieve.
It's not up to others to convince you, and indeed, who is to say their science is even your science, or your view of how terminology affects you is theirs?
If you believe regaining weight could be catastrophic, both mentally and physically to you, you can't decide it would be for all the rest of us.
If you believe your psyche could be highly damaged if the disease returns and also the speed of which that disease returns, again that is just you you are sure of.
I can always become diabetic again, life has no guarantees, however, personally, I can cross that bridge when I come to it.
For now, I'm cured, it is no longer in my life.