eggyg
Well-Known Member
- Relationship to Diabetes
- Type 3c
Wanted to give you a care emoji for your parent predicament, and a heart emoji for your photos, so just went with a thumbs up.4.9 this morning for me.
Had a rollercoaster few days, end result is that Dad has changed his mind and doesn’t want to go into a care home. Mum said she does as she can’t cope well at home now. She has tried to persuade him to no avail so we have cancelled the assessment this week along with all the moving plans. Feeling so frustrated and angry. The danger of falls is still there along with their decreasing ability to cope and manage everyday life in the home. But I’m not going to feel guilty anymore about going away on holiday or out visiting family, friends and places. We have tried so hard to get help and care for them and they have turned everything down. I know it must be hard for them but their expectations of us being always available and belief that they can cope is frustrating. We will plod on until the next series of falls, the fear being the next one will be serious.
Sorry for the rant, not diabetes related, but just wanted to get it off my chest.
On a happier note my daughter and family are not moving to Pittsburgh yet. Her husband is taking the job working remote from home with a few visits every month or so over there. If things go to plan then they will be moving in about 18 months time. We had the grandchildren today and took them to a farm park for some Easter themed events. Had a lovely day with them both.
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Hope your dad comes round, keep trying.