Happy Diaversary and congrats on your HS.Diaversary today - 6 years - and also got one of these, the first for a while:-
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Whatever your plans, have a great day.
ColinAfter lots of back and forth the company said that they’d resend the lost delivery order for a fee of $35 whilst they investigate the lost one. I’ve paid that and am getting it sent to my mum and dad’s house. I’ll do a chargeback on the lost delivery. I’ll also look at dyeing the striped one red. It’s 100% polyester so that’s gonna be fun. I’ll need a cheapo aluminium stock pot and it’ll have to be done on the hob as it needs heat apparently. Luckily the replacement order will have two of that striped kaftan in it but of different sizes so at least I can practice.
Sorry to hear this @Eternal422. If its any comfort (probably not) i'm going through the same thing with mum. I get guilt tripped for going away or even for having made other arrangements to do things before knowing she needs me to take her somewhere so not always cancelling. I think part of it is because she's had the idea put in her head that her children should look after her. I was asked by her to be her carer. I said no and said that carers have a level of detachment when looking after someone and i would prefer to be her daughter. It probably sounds harsh to say that but i would get too emotional i think. I'm hoping when she comes out of hospital she will be more willing to have carers this time as she's so frail now. I think they just get to an age where even the simplest things are too much.. Dad unfortunately has taken to guilt tripping us about going away and not being always available to rush over to them if they need help. He says that Mum is saying we shouldn’t always be away and not available and has been moaning about that - the opposite of what she says to us. So I’m not really looking forward to going over.
Sorry to hear this Colin and did note you were surprised when the police said they were calling you in for an update.Had a meeting with the police this afternoon. Dunno if I’d mentioned that they’d called me in for a meeting a couple of days ago or not.
Went with my ISVA.
Case is over.
The likelihood of a conviction is just about 40%. CPS require a conviction threshold to be around 80%.
As it’s already been No Further Actioned and then reopened and more evidence gathered over another year and a quarter there’s little point in asking for Victim’s Right to Review again. I can ask but it’s pointless as the issue is no contemporaneous witness who can say that I’d told them what happened when it happened.
They’ve had him in for questioning and although he’s corroborated certain parts of what I said happened but for the accusation itself he’s remained silent. As is his right of course.
Apparently he’d been questioned on a number of occasions and has remained silent on all details other than basically acknowledging that he remembered me.
This means, given that there’s no forensic evidence or CCTV or a third party who’s willing to testify that I told them what happened at the time, proving the charge will be impossible.
Of course the police are frustrated, as am I. I think I’m frustrated although to be honest I’m not quite sure what I’m feeling right now. The DI said that it’s more common for suspects to flat out deny things than to No Comment if they disagree with the allegations. That he remained silent speaks volumes. Unfortunately those volumes are not allowed to be taken as a sign of guilt in a criminal case.
I’m exhausted. I’m a little emotional but I’m grateful to the police for everything they’ve done to get the investigation to this point as it’s not been easy.
I’m grateful to you lot for supporting me through it all too.
It is a good thing that it’s done and dusted and I’m sure I’ll be able to find some sense of justice somewhere from this but I’m not sure what that looks like at the moment.
Congrats on your HS @Sharron1GM
Busy day today, hence up so early.
5.2 for me.
Wishing everyone a good Friday