It’s an odd one Patti. She has carers four times a day, a cleaner twice a week, who also does the laundry, her sister visits regularly and one of the boys is there most days. She won’t wear her hearing aids so conversation is difficult. She won’t go out the house anymore because she is scared she’ll fall. She’s not interested in anything, doesn’t read anymore, knit or cook, she was a professional wedding /celebration cake maker. She just lets everyone else run after her. If it’s not about her she’s not interested. She’s been mollycoddled her whole life from her mother ( apparently she was a “sickly” child) Mr Eggy’s dad did everything for her, when he died when she was only 69, the boys took over because she was clueless, didn’t know how to pay a bill or write a cheque, get money from a cash machine, didn’t know anything. I always say they’ve all enabled her. I’m not sure company even 24/7 would be enough. She hates it when people talk amongst themselves if they’re at her house, she even does a fake fainting fit, we all ignore her now as when it first happened an ambulance was called and she spent four days in hospital where she had every test known to man! Nothing found of course. This is what I meant by complicated. After nearly 18 years we’re all a bit weary of it all, to say the least.Maybe the attention seeking is done out of loneliness?
Oh dear yes, I see where you are coming from now. I imagined she had long periods of the day when she was alone. I can see how you are tired of it after all those years. It must be very hard for you all and you have enough on your plates with your own families. Hard to see what the answer is!It’s an odd one Patti. She has carers four times a day, a cleaner twice a week, who also does the laundry, her sister visits regularly and one of the boys is there most days. She won’t wear her hearing aids so conversation is difficult. She won’t go out the house anymore because she is scared she’ll fall. She’s not interested in anything, doesn’t read anymore, knit or cook, she was a professional wedding /celebration cake maker. She just lets everyone else run after her. If it’s not about her she’s not interested. She’s been mollycoddled her whole life from her mother ( apparently she was a “sickly” child) Mr Eggy’s dad did everything for her, when he died when she was only 69, the boys took over because she was clueless, didn’t know how to pay a bill or write a cheque, get money from a cash machine, didn’t know anything. I always say they’ve all enabled her. I’m not sure company even 24/7 would be enough. She hates it when people talk amongst themselves if they’re at her house, she even does a fake fainting fit, we all ignore her now as when it first happened an ambulance was called and she spent four days in hospital where she had every test known to man! Nothing found of course. This is what I meant by complicated. After nearly 18 years we’re all a bit weary of it all, to say the least.
Hi,Morning an 8.2 with a higher overnight than normal and think it is just being lazier in terms of not doing any walking.So went to Waitrose last night by car rather than walk to get baking items for refrigerator cake which I love.Just wish I could bake and make such stuff.
Lovely lunch out yesterday and just watched TV apart from trip to local Farmers Market which is always a festive one in December.
Going to have a lie down after pooches walked but really need to get those walking boots on.
There’s zero chance of that. She’s unable to get up stairs anymore and we don’t have a downstairs bathroom, ( thank goodness) plus I might just be tempted to do her harm! Her other sons do have a downstairs loos, they can fight over her! 😉no words for you mil, are you sure she is not trying to get herself moved in with one of her sons.