Good luck7.4 this morning and off to work shortly as have to leave early as having a tooth out. Not looking forward to it at all. Have date for my next op of 22nd March.
Have a good day all xx
I’m glad you were able to tell them and it sounds like they will be a good support to you. As parents, I’m sure they still worry ( as we do) about you everyday anyways, no matter your age. I think you do right to keep them informed now as otherwise they’ll overthink things and won’t want to bother you etc etc. any news is better than hearing nothing. I’m speaking from experience here as a mother of three adults. I hope you feel better telling them and knowing you have your family’s support, and ours, behind you. Xx6.1 this morning after a momentous evening.
I told mum and dad everything.
It was fine. No tears. Just a clear conversation about what had happened, what spurred me to report things, how the police had been great, where things are at now and also about the support I’ve received from various sources including here.
They listened. They asked questions. They shared their own immediate concerns which I was able to allay.
They didn’t have a clue that any of this has happened and of course they’re concerned but they can also appreciate that being open about everything is empowering and important.
Wasn’t just the three of us last night as I asked my brother and s-in-l to join us but she couldn’t however he was there and was able to offer another support to my folks as well as hear me talk rationally about everything at length as opposed to text in a crisis moment as he’d otherwise experience.
All in all a positive experience.
I’ll text the folks in a bit to check on them and see how they are this morning after dropping the bombshell last night.
Also worth pointing out that it’s only the first slice of cake which has any carbs or calories. The rest escape when the cake is cut.Morning all, 8.0 here, oops! I know what I did, I had a rather fatty, protein heavy casserole, and had to have a choccy digestive mid evening to stave off a low while it was all getting into my system, so obv it kept on giving after I'd gone to bed.
Happy birthday @Gwynn, Enjoy your birthday food, carbs don’t count on birthdays and Christmas day!
What a good thing to be able to read @ColinUK . So pleased that you were Ready to do this and that they listened. Having been open with them you can now support each other through the next phase….. AND 6.1 after all that. Well done.6.1 this morning after a momentous evening.
I told mum and dad everything.
It was fine. No tears. Just a clear conversation about what had happened, what spurred me to report things, how the police had been great, where things are at now and also about the support I’ve received from various sources including here.
They listened. They asked questions. They shared their own immediate concerns which I was able to allay.
They didn’t have a clue that any of this has happened and of course they’re concerned but they can also appreciate that being open about everything is empowering and important.
Wasn’t just the three of us last night as I asked my brother and s-in-l to join us but she couldn’t however he was there and was able to offer another support to my folks as well as hear me talk rationally about everything at length as opposed to text in a crisis moment as he’d otherwise experience.
All in all a positive experience.
I’ll text the folks in a bit to check on them and see how they are this morning after dropping the bombshell last night.