I understand your stress and anxiety about your Grandad, my mother in law is stressing me out and I haven’t seen her for two weeks! Could your mum not go to your Grandad’s house and cook for him? That way he doesn’t have to come to yours at all. Your mum would then wash her hands throughly when she got back. I’m glad he got “ told off”. Mr Eggy tells his mother off everyday as she keeps saying she needs to go the shop and she’s lonely. She goes out for a walk most days and tells us she doesn’t stop and speak to anyone but I know for a fact she couldn’t help herself. She is getting phone calls everyday from her very large family, and FaceTimed/Skyped, we can’t do anymore for her. We’ve tried telling her at least she has family to call and to do her shopping for her, lots don’t but that doesn’t matter. My heart sinks when the phone rings incase it’s her. And whilst I know it’s hard being on your own, it’s for their own safety and the safety of others but I get the feeling they think that it doesn’t matter, they’re old they can do what they want. They are like petulant teenagers! And I know it’s hard but he really shouldn’t be going to your house anyways, under the guidelines, someone can go to him to help care for him as he’s classed as vulnerable. Your mum needs to step up to the plate to protect you all. Take care.Morning
Grandad isn’t happy, manager of Scotmid (Coop) had a word with him on Saturday for being in more than once, the person on the early shift must’ve mentioned he’d been in earlier, I have no sympathy for him getting a telling off as we have been telling him he shouldn’t be popping in at least twice a day, on top of that he still isn’t washing his hands and when I brought it up that he’d come up and in here without washing his hands the reply was “I forgot” how can you forget to wash your hands!? So when he leaves I’m a stressed out mess running round cleaning the door handles etc that he’s touched, I can barely step away from the sink before I’m back at it washing my hands again atm and my hands are literally that sore I want to cry with the pain! It may be harsh but when hes down tomorrow he'll be getting told he needs to get sanitiser gel or wipes and use them after hes come in the closey and in the house, I cant carry on suffering like this!
7.4 for me after digestives before bed, basal is being upped as it is so will move up to 15 after 4 doses of 14.5 and not much change, just want to get everything sorted but the stress of my grandad probably isnt helping!
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I say are you still alive. When my son was at Uni, I would text how are you? If I got no reply , I would then send the are you still alive one?No reading for me today, no point measuring as I crashed at half eight so was up at one. Will go back to bed later...just letting you know I am still breathing.That's what my Mum used to say when she met friends she hadn't seen for ages "Nice to see you still breathing." Freaked them out.
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Hope your feeling better today xx6.3 this morning and you’ll hear no complaints about that from me today 🙂
Sorry to hear that. Does your auntie and cousin live close? They really need to help out if that’s the case. It’s a tough one and families need to pull together at this time. I hope you all can sort it as we’re in for the long haul. Xx@eggyg my mum has her own health issues and she isn't managing up and down the stairs too well atm, she has degeneration of the spine and is struggling quite a bit, she knows its only going to get worse and she will end up in a wheelchair but she tries not to think about it, his other daughter and granddaughter should be the ones taking on some responsibility xx
A few miles away but they have a car available, they haven't even bothered phoning him to see if he's well though and haven't been in touch for weeks so nothing I can do, thanks though xxSorry to hear that. Does your auntie and cousin live close? They really need to help out if that’s the case. It’s a tough one and families need to pull together at this time. I hope you all can sort it as we’re in for the long haul. Xx