HenryBennett
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- Relationship to Diabetes
- Type 2
That’s not acceptable and so hard for you.Sorry for the rant but, would you believe it, I have no support at all.
That’s not acceptable and so hard for you.Sorry for the rant but, would you believe it, I have no support at all.
I'm very very sorry to hear this. So incredibly tough and unfair on you both. I say please rant away - get it off your chest.A terrible day here. Wife got up. Found her laptop hard drive missing and immediately got angry and accused me...
The day went downhill for me thereafter.
Her hard drive was in her safe (yes she has a safe to kerp stuff from the intruders trying to steal everything from her). She was happy with that eventually but I was so upset with being accused again of something nasty. It lingered with me all day. It just makes me feel like giving up completely.
I hate her illness!!!! It has ruined everything for us aand hurt her greatly.
Sorry for the rant but, would you believe it, I have no support at all. I am completely alone with the weight of everything on my shoulders.... and still she shouts and accuses me. Aghhhn!!!
Tomorrow will be a better day...
Depends on circumstance and experience of the individual I suppose. Depends if the ‘new partner’ wants anything to do with the ‘grown up’ children. Funny things families and actually humans come to think of it.And
@Clifton comment: "not helped by a phone call from my mother who tells me she has just started seeing someone 21 years her junior...I'm happy for her if she's happy but need to check the dude out! Dad passed 6 years ago and was 10 years her senior - so she's gone the other way!"
Spoiler Alert! Here's the other side of the coin.
I've often wondered why all the haters for step parents and suspicion for new partners of parents? I blame Disney myself, all those fairy tales about the wicked step-mother. Even the much loved "The Sound Of Music" had an element of step-mother hate. What's wrong with a mature adult with all their faculties in their latter years finding love again? With a younger or older person? Who's to judge? Why do children believe they know better than their adult consenting parent? Don't people want their parent to be happy?
Why are children, themselves often grown adult children settled with families of their own so opposed to it? Would they rather their widowed or divorced parent live alone and in misery for the rest of their natural lives, while they happily live their own lives? Is it about inheritance? Surely if a parent finds company again, is happy and frees their adult children from looking after them or being carers or having their own lives interrupted, that's a good thing?
In the UK we like to use care homes for our elderly parents, but elsewhere and on the continent like Southern Europe it's not unusual to see three or four generations living under the same roof or next door to each other. Some on here live with their elderly parent, which I admire. I wish I could still live with my lovely mum, now sadly deceased. Can't have it both ways. Why can't we just be kind, supportive and loving? Just saying.
Line of Duty - police corruption. AC-12. Oh you have 6 series to watch !!!! Surely you watch 11 million watch - almost as many as the 2nd jab brigade!I'm lost here. What's this H thing? I won't Google it so I can be surprised!
It sounds like a nightmare @Gwynn did you call Mind they might be able to give you offer you some time to yourself or other support.Good morning. An HS here, some good news. 5.2
Wife was very appologetic after finding her hard drive that she had hidden away. A bit late for a battered me, but I am strong and bounce back (a bit slower these days). Today will be a better day. I just hate what her illness has done to her (and me).
Booked my second covid jab on line this morning...first week in May.
I may go for a walk today...or not...
Line of Duty? No idea what that is, but then we don't have television (satellite gives waves off that affect my wifes health, apparently)
Congratulations on the HS. I really hope you get some sort of peace today.Good morning. An HS here, some good news. 5.2
Wife was very appologetic after finding her hard drive that she had hidden away. A bit late for a battered me, but I am strong and bounce back (a bit slower these days). Today will be a better day. I just hate what her illness has done to her (and me).
Booked my second covid jab on line this morning...first week in May.
I may go for a walk today...or not...
Line of Duty? No idea what that is, but then we don't have television (satellite gives waves off that affect my wifes health, apparently)