Don't worry, it's quite understandable to feel a bit overwhelmed, also I've posted loads of stuff, so it's probably quite hard to sift through what I've written/what I think. Do bear in mind that we're all different, etc., etc.
This mammoth effort is probably not going to be that easy to digest either, sorry!
I think you will probably need to drop your basal for longer rides [edit: ah, of course Toujeo is a very long acting insulin, so this is not so easy to do without changing to another insulin - so perhaps try bolus elimination first and see how you get on], as otherwise you will end up needing to eat loads in the 2nd half (once your liver has depleted its glycogen). There are caveats (of course), if you're stopping part way and can eat a decent amount, then you can boost your BG up and counter-act this. I ride to work (40km each way, not every day!) without reducing basal, because I know I will be there for a while and can eat/sort BG out, so it's effectively just a pair of 40km rides. I'd probably be happy with an 80km ride with normal basal, but would take a decent amount of food that I'd need to eat in the second half.
Onto the main question, do I eat and do I take bolus:
If my blood sugar is stable and in range, I will always eat something uncovered before I leave. If it's lunchtime I'll have something to eat (say 40g carbs - e.g. a sandwich) and ride, if it's in between meals I'll have a cup of coffee and a couple of biscuits (say ~25g carbs total). I do this in order to give my BG a quick bump up that will hopefully counteract the drop caused by exercise. This is mainly as it's more pleasant to eat at home than while pedalling 30min into the ride, so I may as well do it before I leave (and save the space in my framebag too). In the case of lunch I'm hungry so want to eat anyway but not take any bolus - I will therefore move lunch forward/backward to fit a ride if needs be.
If I'm high (and not dropping), even at lunchtime (and I'm hungry), I won't eat but will expect to eat during the ride, depending on how long it is. I won't generally do a correction and ride, unless very high, but that usually means I'm unwell so I won't be riding anyway.
I rarely leave at supper time, as I don't want to ride through the night and also because this tends to be my large meal of the day, so I will need to take some bolus. I do it (night rides) so infrequently that it's hard to remember, but I would guess I'd take perhaps 1/2 the usual dose (and I already split my dose for my evening meal, so this may only be 1/4 of the usual dose), and accept I may peak in the low/mid teens - this is similar to what I try to do for badminton in the evening.
Breakfast departures are different - I used to head off last year (for 140km+ rides) and eat breakfast (~35g CHO porridge) uncovered, which worked as long as I got out the door fairly quickly. I would end up peaking in the low to mid teens, then dropping to need to eat after ~2h30. However, this year, I have dawn phenomenon, so if I do this I end up shooting up to 20mmol/l+ which isn't ideal, and then I take 1U or 1.5U of bolus and end up dropping quite quickly (though this complete process usually takes on the order of 2h30). I can't say I've got this quite sorted, but I'm getting better at it, and I now try to take enough bolus to cover the dawn phenomenon part (i.e. the same quantity as on a normal day) and perhaps part of breakfast. This gave me a peak of 14mmol/l iirc on the last 200k ride which I thought wasn't too terrible, and then it gently dropped down into single figures.
To to summarise my thoughts regarding bolus - I try to avoid it completely except for fixing dawn phenomenon. I also try to avoid having any residual amount on board to avoid going low rapidly during the ride (I will drop anyway from basal, but I don't want it to drop through the floor which can happen with bolus IoB). I can live a bit of bolus IoB and needing to sort this out on short rides (an hour loop at lunchtime with left over from morning coffee, or my ~2h ride back home from work with some left over from lunch) but I know I will need to eat.
Having any significant amount on board is bad news IMO - I find my BG drops rapidly and I then need to eat quite a lot quite quickly to stave off/recover from a hypo, and it's then not much fun continuing to eat while you continue the ride. On my first 100 mile ride I stopped for lunch (sandwich, biscuits, coffee) and took ~3U to cover about half the total carbs. On my ride back I was eating constantly and bumping along just above hypo, wasn't much fun!