Hi, thanks for your support. My daughter has actually asked to reply to you so here goes;
"Whilst some people DO find CAHMS helpful, it IS down to personal preferences, and I have been offered it, but turned it down, as I don't see it would be of any help. I have several people I can talk to, family members and family friends, including my mum, who unlike some of my friends and their parents, I find very easy to talk to, and I don't see that talking to a complete stranger would be of any use to me, apart from wasting my time, and also energy. And besides, talking isn't what I need, its peace and understanding, as all this excess stress and pressure is NOT helping my M.E at all. It's not that I'm refusing to do my injections, just some times I CAN'T. When I am able to, I do do them, and I frequently test my blood sugars throughout the day, as my mum can set it up for me and all I have to do is prick my finger. But on my bad days, which are more often than good, I don't have the energy to sit up and do my insulin. And from past experience, if my mum administered it for me, lying down, it would hurt. A lot. And I'm not prepared to do that, and my mum understands that. However the Doctor doesn't seem to. Obviously not a diabetic. Injecting is a very personal thing, and I'm not comfortable with ANYONE doing my injections. Thats not to say I don't trust my mum, because I do, and I get on very well with her. It's just a personal choice. On the occasions when I've been so tired and out of it, my mum HAS done my injection for me, because I'm not even aware of it, and she has my permission to do that, but if she did so without my permission, it would be assault. And then she'd be being ridiculed by god knows who for doing so. I find it very unfair, and unjust, that all the blame is being put on my mum, when at the age of 15, it's my responsibility, and she can't pin me down and force me to do my injection, so what is she supposed to do? I swear to god these 'professionals' have had their brains removed."
Gosh, I did say she has a mind of her own lol! I'm trying to obtain legal advice, which in itself isn't easy when the ?s are in short supply, but I shall keep trying! MW