Hi, I only registered last night and am new to all this! I want to ask if anyone else has experienced anything like what I, and my daughter are going through at the moment.
My daughter is 15 (yes, stroppy teenager,'mind of her own', etc., etc! But lovely with it!), and has been diabetic since she was aged 9. We have never managed to achieve vey good control, though it hasn't been for the lack of trying. She was also diagnosed with Chronic Fatigue Syndrome/ME nearly 3 years ago, which has just made control even more difficult. Her condition re ME has deteriorated to the point where she is unable to accesss her home turor sessions, and life is pretty dreadful, for both of us.
Her HBA1Cs are horrendous, and although daughter knows all the 'scare' stories, etc., she is, at times, just unable to lift her arms to do her injections, but she won't allow me to give them for her. Add to that the times when she's in 'stroppy' mode and simply WON'T do them, I have become the nag from hell! As a result of my allowing her to attend and sing in a concert before Christmas, (and who would say no when their child is usually a virtual prisoner to their medical problems?), the school and her paediatrician have decided they need to involve social services! The paediatrician has gone one step further and threatened care proceedings if my daughter doesn't agree to the treatment he has advised; admission to hospital to "sort out her blood sugars", and a referral to CAMHS for her ME, both of which she has refused, and I respect her wishes. The doctor says he respects her wishes, but obviously doesn't as he seems to be saying "do as I say, OR ELSE".
I feel bullied by the 'big guns', and have been made to feel that I'm a really bad mother. Has anyone else experience anything like this? I feel isolated and, I'm desperate for more info re the teenagers who run high sugars, maybe even have been admitted to hospital in DKA - which, incidentally, my daughter never has!
Any advice, support, would be much appreciated. so sorry this is rather long winded - believe me, I did try and cut it short!
Thanks, MW
My daughter is 15 (yes, stroppy teenager,'mind of her own', etc., etc! But lovely with it!), and has been diabetic since she was aged 9. We have never managed to achieve vey good control, though it hasn't been for the lack of trying. She was also diagnosed with Chronic Fatigue Syndrome/ME nearly 3 years ago, which has just made control even more difficult. Her condition re ME has deteriorated to the point where she is unable to accesss her home turor sessions, and life is pretty dreadful, for both of us.
Her HBA1Cs are horrendous, and although daughter knows all the 'scare' stories, etc., she is, at times, just unable to lift her arms to do her injections, but she won't allow me to give them for her. Add to that the times when she's in 'stroppy' mode and simply WON'T do them, I have become the nag from hell! As a result of my allowing her to attend and sing in a concert before Christmas, (and who would say no when their child is usually a virtual prisoner to their medical problems?), the school and her paediatrician have decided they need to involve social services! The paediatrician has gone one step further and threatened care proceedings if my daughter doesn't agree to the treatment he has advised; admission to hospital to "sort out her blood sugars", and a referral to CAMHS for her ME, both of which she has refused, and I respect her wishes. The doctor says he respects her wishes, but obviously doesn't as he seems to be saying "do as I say, OR ELSE".
I feel bullied by the 'big guns', and have been made to feel that I'm a really bad mother. Has anyone else experience anything like this? I feel isolated and, I'm desperate for more info re the teenagers who run high sugars, maybe even have been admitted to hospital in DKA - which, incidentally, my daughter never has!
Any advice, support, would be much appreciated. so sorry this is rather long winded - believe me, I did try and cut it short!
Thanks, MW