The first thing I asked her was had she been put on insulin. Were you just left to get on with it on your own? I’m worried for her. I’m going to help as much as I can.
I was first put on gliclazide, because my Liver Function tests were all out of kilter, so Metformin was contraindicated. It didn’t really help, and I felt very alone and struggling. My GP told me to go out and buy a meter, and she would prescribe strips, and I was to test myself twice a week! (though I did later have a discussion with her about what more frequent testing was showing me, and she agreed. The testing and driving rules weren’t in place then)
Fortunately, she recognised that I wasn’t a typical Type 2 and referred me to the hospital. And I also bought the Gretchen Becker book and read it from cover to cover, reduced my carbs, and got my next HbA1c down to ....12%! Then I had my hopsital appointment 3 months later, where they added Metformin because me LFTs had calmed down, and went on with the Type 2 diagnosis, until the appointment three months after that, when they thought to do a GAD test, and put me on background insulin to be going on with.
Finally, a year after diagnosis, I got Novorapid added to the mix, told to stop the Glic and Met, and got reclassified Type 1. (Though my GP was still convinced I must be Type 2, because older people don’t develop Type 1.)
I did spend quite a lot of time blaming myself, having been told it was Type 2, and thinking that I must have brought it on myself. This forum didn’t exist then, and there wasn’t an awful lot of online stuff, I found an American site where everyone seemed to have HbA1cs in the low 5s, and that put me off seeking any more forums til I stumbled on this about 5 years after diagnosis.