Marg
Yes, I'm d/e controlled. I suspect I was borderline meds when diagnosed with an HbA1c of 7.1%. I see yours was a little higher at diagnosis, 7.3%, so little to choose between the two.
As far as I am aware, the clinical guidance suggests an initial period of d/e control and then meds only if you don't achieve the HbA1c target agreed with your GP. The experience of others on here indicates that some GPs will put you straight on to metformin, particularly if your HbA1c is above 7% on diagnosis.
With me, there was no push to go on to metformin immediately although I was told I was mad not to take a statin because of my high lipid levels. Fortunately, when I got my BG into line, the lipids fell back to normal range and now there's no suggestion of statins at all.
I do wonder if the medics have low expectations of their patients sometimes and go straight to the meds because they think most of us will not achieve much by d/e. Their experience may bear that out to some extent. The members of this and I guess other forums are different from the 'typical' diabetic, if there is such a thing - all of us here either have good control or are determined to achieve it. Maybe the medics are not used to that.