Hello
@Simon booth and welcome to the forum.
Yes, I also found it difficult to get my head around having Diabetes, following the shock of the diagnosis.
Diabetes is a serious condition, but it can be positively managed and there is a help and support available. It is certainly possible to get blood sugars down to the acceptable level and sometimes to achieve remission.
You will need to make a few changes though, and these need to be sustainable, as this is for the long term.
You have made a brilliant start with the 10,000 steps a day.
It will be a very big help if you can find a heathy way of eating to reduce your blood sugar levels and weight. There are several ways of doing this and you need to find a way that suites you and that you can sustain.
For me, what has worked is, as well as cutting out all the sugary things, cutting down on the carbs particularly the ‘white’ ones (white bread and flour,rice,pasta,etc ) and I mainly eat fish, poultry, yoghurt, some cheeses, nuts and seeds, and have learned to love vegetables, and now fill my plate up with these. The ones that grow above the ground are best.
I also try to avoid too much processed food, and to include plenty of fibre some from the veg, plus seeds and pulses.
Fruit is quite high in natural sugars and these are still carbohydrates and will raise the Blood Glucose, so best to limit to just one portion a day. Berries like raspberries or strawberries or blackberries are best.
There is a lot of information available, so worth spending time to read around.
(2) Useful links for people new to diabetes | Diabetes UK may help, and
(2) Maggie Davey's letter to newly-diagnosed Type 2s | Diabetes UK shows how this lady went about fining her solution.
The 'Learning Zone' orange tab at the top of this page is also full of useful information.
Best wishes, and please let us know how it goes, and we will always try to answer questions.