My dose was halved from 1000mg to 500mg when I got a 2nd hba1c of 36 after an 83 and being put on 1000mg of Metformin - not sure why it was such a low dose when 83 is fairly high, and it seems to be debatable if 1000mg is effective.
They said I could stop last year if I wanted, as it was still in the 30s. I decided to keep taking it, as it's not doing me any harm. It's still in the 30s this year.
Below 4 seems odd. I get readings in the 3s quite often after exercise (And if I drink alcohol), and I've been told to eat something sugary when it goes below 4! I don't, because it goes up to the 5s after a short period of time.
Your Dr is right. Remission/reversal is a bit controversial and not everyone can achieve it, and many who do fail to maintain the relevant lifestyle necessary remain in remission. I have a friend who is a GP and has never seen anyone do it, although most T2s take the pills and don't change their lifestyle. ("Diet for a few weeks and then back on the pizza!")