Hi Curly Grandma, welcome to the forum
🙂 Sorry to hear about your diagnosis, how did you come to be diagnosed? I'm also sorry to hear that your nurse does not support testing

Experience with other members, and many more people the world over, shows that, yes, diabetes can be managed with diet and exercise - but also by using the tools we have available to discover what foods we tolerate well and those we need to either reduce or exclude from our diets. Without testing, you are simply guessing - if you have another HbA1c in 3 or 6 months time and things have not improved you cannot possibly know what it might have been that you thought you were doing right, but getting wrong. It's simple logic to me, and the notion that you 'don't need to do it' is based almost purely on the short-term savings made by not providing you with the test strips, education and support that would constitute proper and useful care
So yes, I would encourage you to test your levels, before and after eating, so you can build up a picture of what items raise your blood glucose levels a lot and what you can eat without problems. Human beings are complex creatures, and diabetes is a very individual condition. Telling you to 'eat healthily' is of little practical use. For example, you may think a glass of fresh fruit juice in the mornings might be healthy, but if you are diabetic it's possibly one of the worst things you could have as it would send you blood glucose levels through the roof!
😱 Diabetes is not just about the sweet stuff, all carbohydrates - bread, pasta, rice, potatoes, cakes, biscuits, sweets (sugar is just another form of carbohydrate) - will raise you levels, so it is this group that you need to concentrate on. I would recommend getting a copy of
The GL Diet for Dummies, which describes how to select food combinations that will have a slow and steady release of their energy rather than 'spiking' it up then dropping it rapidly back down again (often called a 'sugar rush', which can leave you feeling drained and unwell).
Have a read of
Test,Review, Adjust by Alan S to understand how testing can help to tailor your diet to retain flexibility (you don't want to unnecessarily restrict things that you are fine with!) and improve you levels. If you have to buy your own meter and strips it is worth doing as often, when presented with the results and evidence it is improving things for you, the GP or nurse will (often grudgingly!) prescribe some strips for you. In my opinion, no person who is motivated to test should be denied the facility. The cheapest option we have come across here is the
SD Codefree Meter with
test strips at around £8 for 50. This compares with £25-£30 for 50 strips in your local Boots.
I would recommend reading
Jennifer's Advice and
Maggie Davey's letter, and also getting a copy of
Type 2 Diabetes: The First Year by Gretchen Becker - equipped with these you will then be in the best possible position to take control of your diabetes and improve your health. Diabetes isn't a great thing to be diagnosed with, it does require some work to get it under control, but for those who succeed (and there is no reason why you shouldn't be one of them!) the adjustments made often lead to greater energy, well-being and zest for life, so there is everything to gain!
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Please let us know if you have any questions, you'll find lots of friendly, experienced people here who understand exactly how you are feeling, and will be happy to help - no question is considered 'silly', so if it is bothering or confusing you - ask away!
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