I can’t really convey how grateful I am for all your sound advice. I’ve made a decision consequently about alcohol, and going to try being a monk Ie abstain entirely from. I managed too last weekend whilst in one whilst all around enjoyed. My George Best days are over anyway, time to be Gary Lineker. Aiming for remission has to be the goal, and losing weight whilst still drinking even on occassion is unhelpful.That is a fantastic reduction in HbA1c so many congratulations on achieving that. When you have worked hard at making changes as you have, it is important to acknowledge just how far you have come and what you have achieved. Yes we could probably all do a bit better and push ourselves harder and restrict our diet a bit more, but it is important to balance our effort with also enjoying life and diabetes is all about finding that balance. If you can maintain your HbA1c in the mid to upper 40s then that significantly reduces the risks of diabetic complications, if you feel you want to push it a bit lower and try for remission then fair enough but it isn't essential. You could do some testing to find particular foods that spike your levels more than others and fine tune your diet a bit more to substitute those foods for lower carb ones, if you haven't already been doing that and you could try to fit in a bit more exercise but to be honest it doesn't have to be anything overly exertive. A good brisk walk is as good as anything. Maybe pick up the pace of your dog walks if your dog is up to that and add in some hills to get you breathing more deeply and heart rate increased. Small sustainable changes are the best.
I’ve head my head buried in the sand for a good while after diagnosis. Don’t mean doing daft things, just not educating myself. Primarily because I’m scared what I may read. But I’m now feeling more confident and curious and this forum has already taught me lots - not least to put my big boy pants on and ask for advice.
A lot to learn but I’ve made a start. Thank you and many others for terrific support this far. I’m indeed very grateful.