Hello
@JB1 and welcome
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I'm sorry to read about the ongoing problems you're facing. I have similar long term complications including serious foot and ankle problems - Charcot foot -that have left me in casts/air boots and reliant on crutches for the past 20+ years. Like you, I wasn't aware that the 'foot problems' I was told about could possibly mean the destruction of the bones in my feet and also my ankle joints. I've been told after numerous surgeries that my bones won't heal and my stark choice is to stay as I am in a cast ongoing and hope nothing else goes wrong or have a below knee amputation. I did seek a second opinion from the leading diabetic foot clinic in London who were so helpful to me and although there wasn't anything new they could suggest it made me feel better knowing I had asked. It may be worth your while considering asking for a second opinion about your foot , there may be some trial treatment or surgery out there and there is no harm in asking. You could also ask for a referral to an orthotist who may be able to make some custom shoes that protect your feet in the same way as an aircast boot does but are less cumbersome.
I've had surgical release for frozen shoulders which really helped with the pain and movement down my arms but met the same dismissive approach as yourself when I was referred about carpal tunnel and trigger fingers. The surgeon I saw asked me 'what did I expect when I'd had diabetes that long' and said there was no point in doing any surgery as it wouldn't improve anything. I went away and the nerve pain from my shoulders down my arms progressed and my thumb muscles started to waste away. I asked to see a different surgeon who operated on my hands the week after seeing me and the relief from pain was instant, I thank him so much for not dismissing me in the same manner as his colleague. My HbA1c has been between 5.8-6.5% for years now but the damage is there and however tight my control is, it doesn't stop new fractures and doesn't help me mend .
Do ask for a referral to a different orthopaedic surgeon about your hands as the pain from compressed nerves is agonising and can be dealt effectively by carpal tunnel release - if that is the cause . As for dealing with life ongoing in casts/airboot- it's really hard but I just accept that for me at present it is the better of my two options and I try to be philosophical about it. I use pain relief to enable me to walk and try my best to get on with what needs doing and keep the tightest control I can as although that hasn't stopped things progressing, I presume it must count for something in terms of preventing things getting a lot worse.
I wish you well and hope you can get some beneficial advice for your problems. Best Wishes
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