Jenny65
Well-Known Member
- Relationship to Diabetes
- Type 2
I am really struggling today. Apologies for bringing anyone down.
I feel a bit lost and alone, my mum was my best friend who I told everything to and she made everything right, She died in 2018 and my lovely dad died in 2007, I have 3 grown up children who I adore, they all have there own lives and I am so incredibly lonely,
Why am I trying to be healthy to live longer more with this loneliness and pain, I really dont know why I am bothering. I am 57 now single after my 28 year relationship with my childrens father ended, he has moved on, and I am happy for him, even though he abused me. He physically attacked our daughter when she prevented him attacking me when she was 17, she has a permanent restraining order against him, I dont blame her and feel guilty it came to that.
I met someone else, we were together 7 years but he tormented me emotionally , told me I was too fat to celebrate his birthday so took a girl out from work instead, lots of other things like that and was shocked when I ended it, it was complicated as my daughter was best friend for years with his daughter and was like family. I got the strength to end it.
Lock down happened, I got fatter and my son told me, "mum you have a lot of the traits of an early death, please make sure you look after yourself" i got fatter and fatter, i got diabetes, fatty liver, high cholesterol, and have been battling since 1st July with it, lost over 2 stone but today I realised, its the weekend and I have no friends and no where to go even if I wanted to. I am not sleeping well and have got nytol from the chemist, I have drunk 4 glasses of wine and wondered whether it will be a problem if I take them then thought, well what does it matter if I do take them and the worst happens, my children will have one less burden in their lives. I have written out letters to them in my head but not on paper, but feel so guilty, I love them so much but literally have nothing ahead of me, I dont want to burden them and there is alziemers in the family so it would be a kindness really,
Sorry just wanted to offload
I feel a bit lost and alone, my mum was my best friend who I told everything to and she made everything right, She died in 2018 and my lovely dad died in 2007, I have 3 grown up children who I adore, they all have there own lives and I am so incredibly lonely,
Why am I trying to be healthy to live longer more with this loneliness and pain, I really dont know why I am bothering. I am 57 now single after my 28 year relationship with my childrens father ended, he has moved on, and I am happy for him, even though he abused me. He physically attacked our daughter when she prevented him attacking me when she was 17, she has a permanent restraining order against him, I dont blame her and feel guilty it came to that.
I met someone else, we were together 7 years but he tormented me emotionally , told me I was too fat to celebrate his birthday so took a girl out from work instead, lots of other things like that and was shocked when I ended it, it was complicated as my daughter was best friend for years with his daughter and was like family. I got the strength to end it.
Lock down happened, I got fatter and my son told me, "mum you have a lot of the traits of an early death, please make sure you look after yourself" i got fatter and fatter, i got diabetes, fatty liver, high cholesterol, and have been battling since 1st July with it, lost over 2 stone but today I realised, its the weekend and I have no friends and no where to go even if I wanted to. I am not sleeping well and have got nytol from the chemist, I have drunk 4 glasses of wine and wondered whether it will be a problem if I take them then thought, well what does it matter if I do take them and the worst happens, my children will have one less burden in their lives. I have written out letters to them in my head but not on paper, but feel so guilty, I love them so much but literally have nothing ahead of me, I dont want to burden them and there is alziemers in the family so it would be a kindness really,
Sorry just wanted to offload
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