Thank you
@Kol, I hope I haven’t offended anyone with my comments, it was not intended.
The only reason my grandmother gave up was because she couldn’t afford it any more. My dad used to smoke cigars, it was his Sunday afternoon treat, but the lounge afterwards would be full of smoky fog and he bought an air purifier to clear it. Then once he’d changed the filters a few times and seen what they looked like it dawned on him what his lungs must look like and that was the encouragement for him to change. My mum almost gave up but couldn’t quite, fair enough she tried, but now pretends she doesn’t, has sneaky ones when she thinks no-one is looking, doesn’t seem to realise that we can all smell it on her, finally admitted to dad that she still smokes sometimes but says her cough is because of asthma not cigarettes and then wonders why she didn’t cough when she was in hospital with pneumonia a couple of years ago. Sigh. Well it’s her body her life, I’m overweight and don’t always eat as healthily as I should so I guess we’ve all got our vices. But she regularly berates me about my weight but if you dare to mention that you know she still smokes then all hell breaks loose. I’d have more respect for her if she said “yes I do still smoke, I know it isn’t good for me, but I don’t care”. Some people can’t be helped, I just wish she’d be honest about it.