beckyp
Well-Known Member
- Relationship to Diabetes
- Type 1
Hi guys! It's been so long since I logged in to diabetessupport (sorry!) but I wanted to rant...and you're probably the only people that 'get' where I'm coming from!
My husband has been offered a job in New Zealand (it was a joint decision for him to apply so it wasn't a surprise!). Part of the immigration process is to have medicals. I needed a HbA1c which was 8.3!!!!!!!!! The doctor wrote ABNORMAL on my medical form and when I looked at the range that I was meant to be in it's 3.5 - 7 which seems REALLY strict 😱 ...and low...and annoyingly the form says that it's uncontrolled diabetes when it's above 7! It took me months to get under 7 in order to be given the go ahead to start trying for a baby!!!!! Jeez....
I just really feel like I've let everyone down. My husband because he'll have the chance for a better job in NZ where he'll not be working all the hours under the sun, my daughter because she'll see her Daddy more and then me...because I've practically packed and was on the plane 🙂rolleyes🙂. I'm just so disappointed with myself.
I've really struggled to keep my levels straight since having my daughter 5 months ago and have woken up high EVERY morning since having her and put her first instead of the diabetes. I was planning on waiting til I finish breastfeeding (another month or so to go) before I started being really strict again but it looks like I'll need to start setting night time alarms again.
*sigh* Sometimes I hate diabetes....and doctors with high expectations!
Rant over.
Also - does anyone know of any type 1 diabetics that have emigrated?! It'd be useful to know what they went through!
My husband has been offered a job in New Zealand (it was a joint decision for him to apply so it wasn't a surprise!). Part of the immigration process is to have medicals. I needed a HbA1c which was 8.3!!!!!!!!! The doctor wrote ABNORMAL on my medical form and when I looked at the range that I was meant to be in it's 3.5 - 7 which seems REALLY strict 😱 ...and low...and annoyingly the form says that it's uncontrolled diabetes when it's above 7! It took me months to get under 7 in order to be given the go ahead to start trying for a baby!!!!! Jeez....
I just really feel like I've let everyone down. My husband because he'll have the chance for a better job in NZ where he'll not be working all the hours under the sun, my daughter because she'll see her Daddy more and then me...because I've practically packed and was on the plane 🙂rolleyes🙂. I'm just so disappointed with myself.
I've really struggled to keep my levels straight since having my daughter 5 months ago and have woken up high EVERY morning since having her and put her first instead of the diabetes. I was planning on waiting til I finish breastfeeding (another month or so to go) before I started being really strict again but it looks like I'll need to start setting night time alarms again.
*sigh* Sometimes I hate diabetes....and doctors with high expectations!
Rant over.
Also - does anyone know of any type 1 diabetics that have emigrated?! It'd be useful to know what they went through!