HbA1c - not the be-all and end-all
Tom & Sue
Can I raise the thought that, while HbA1c is important, other things are equally important in a person's life? In fact, I suspect that HbA1c gets most emphasis because it's easy to measure - and it's a scientific principle that things that are easy to measure then to get get measured, rather than the most important, but more difficult to measure, things. The diabetes clinic I attend doesn't record even estimates of activity levels, and while they record body weight, they don't record what clothes are being worn, nor record hieght accurately - many people think they are several cms shorter or taller than they really are, as I discovered when working on Gateshead Millennium Study, weighing and measuring skinfold thicknesses, heights, waists, hips and body composition of children born 1999 - 2000 and their mothers.
I didn't have diabetes as a teenager, although I did have the great pleasure of having a lad, with diabetes, aged about 18 years in my "fire" (group) on a 6 week expedition in South Greenland. If I think back to my teenage years, I know what was important to me - and, I think, gave me many skills etc that I am still using now. As well as gaining O and A levels (as they were then), I gained qualifications in first aid, lifesaving, Guides, Sea Rangers and Duke of Edinburgh's Award Scheme, learned hill walking, mountain weather, caving, kayaking, sailing etc, cycled lots around local countryside with friends my own age and blind men on tandems, made & shifted scenery for Gang Shows and pantomimes, went on 6 week expedition to Greenland and Iceland, spent a summer teaching archery & mountain activities, then a few weeks as a postman, so I earned enough to spend 4 months travelling in the Middle East and Europe, returning just in time to start my nurse training, and beginning a "career" in writing, intitially travel articles for free magazines I found in London etc.
So, my take on the situation is, while Tom's HbA1c could be better and he should work towards this, there are many other important aspects of his life - education, youth groups, sports, friendships, travel etc.