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Son, 6, very recently diagnosed - Type 1

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Leanne-618

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Hi Everyone,

So this will be quite a story but I'll get there eventually:-

My son who is 6 (born Sep '09) has always wet the bed, always worn a pull up for bed and could wee at night anywhere between once - 5 times. Having tried to get him out of pull ups, I decided to take it up with the school nurse who then referred me to the continence clinic.

We got an appt in late Feb and I was told to chart down how many drinks he has in a day, how often he visits the toilet, etc. This was to be done for two weeks. I soon began to notice that his drinking was more than I thought it was but carried on charting it. His teacher also pointed out that he was visiting the toilet more frequent and so it began!!

Speed up a bit, I went back to clinic after two weeks and was given desmopressin for him. Once the tablet is taken at night there's no drinking for 8 hours. I then mentioned I would like him tested for diabetes as the amount of bed wetting was unreal (now a night change of pull-ups, two used a night, both full and bed soaking every morning!) and also his thirst was quite excessive.

So I've been to docs (18 Mar) and he has also agreed to test him, gives me a tube for urine sample and tells me to book blood test. His blood test gets booked for Thursday 31 March and that's that!

Now I thought I'd hand in his urine sample in around time of blood test however come Wednesday 23 March my son develops an ear infection, so I kill two birds with one stone and take him along for that and get doc to test his urine. ***This is where everything went in fast forward for me***

Doc tested his urine, full of ketones (really dark red), some protein and sugar. Then does his blood sugar which is 22. We got told to go straight into hospital as a matter of urgency (I really expected his urine to be fine and doctor to say everything was normal, so this was a massive shock).

Lots of tests done at hospital and turns out he has Type 1 diabetes. Had I not taken him for bed wetting and taken him for his ear on Wednesday the nurse said come this weekend he would have more than likely been rushed in seriously ill.

The consultant said my sons blood sugars must have been creeping up for a few months and in the last couple of weeks I've noticed his thirst and excessive trips to toilet and weight loss, that's when his blood sugars have been really getting too high.

So we're back home, my first day yesterday of giving insulin and doing bloods all day. He's on one shot of glargine and 3 shots of novo rapid. He's doing ok at letting me inject him but if I'm honest, I'm positive in front of him and when I get a chance to be alone I sob my heart out!

I know I will get there, I just wish it was me and not him. I feel like he's a pin cushion and hope that feeling will pass. It's also been a massive shock for myself, my son and my whole family.

His blood sugars are still quite varied, still quite high but I'm in touch with our DSN every day and shes changing his doses to get him down to a more normal level before teaching me about carbs.

If you've read this far , thank you very much. It's good to be able to get it all off my chest. If I've confused you anywhere, ask me a question and I'll reply. Any advice, or even just support at the moment will do wonders for me. I'm also trying to think of ways I can support my son more. He's really very bright and understands everything I'm doing but gets very scared when I'm doing his insulin injections, which is obviously normal at this point I'd imagine.

Anyway, I'll stop there and thanks for reading. I'm looking forward to being part of this community xx
 
Thank you 🙂
 
Welcome Leeanne

I am sorry to hear of your sons diagnosis but pleased that you have now got the correct one. He will quickly feel a lot better now that he has some insulin inside him.

Keep us up to date with his progress, and there will be lots of people here happy to help with any questions.

Sorry that this is a quick post, rushing out but I am sure there will be others here soon.
 
Thank you for your post

Our DSN did say that although his levels are still quite high (ranging anywhere between 9 and 18 at the moment) that at least he's getting the insulin in and at the very least it is having some effect. He has only been diagnosed since Wednesday so I'm told not to expect miracles so to speak, his levels will come down in time.

I have noticed just from last night to now he is so tired. He's been asleep since 7 last night and is just moving about now. Is that normal with high sugar levels?

He usually sleeps about 8 / 9 hours!
 
Hi Leanne, welcome to the forum 🙂 Very sorry to hear about your little one's diagnosis :( This is the second story we have heard in the past couple of days where a doctor has overlooked the possibility of Type 1 diabetes, given the symptoms, thank goodness you didn't just accept it! 😱

Things will take a little while to settle down, so try not to worry too much about his blood sugar levels for now - as long as they aren't wildly out then he'll be OK. Do you have close contact with a DSN (Diabetes Specialist Nurse)? If so, don't be afraid to call and ask any questions you may have or if you have any concerns - they are usually really good at their jobs. He's on a good, flexible insulin regime, and with experience you will begin to understand all the little nuances of controlling his blood sugar levels - try not to be overwhelmed, but do record all his doses and blood sugar levels - it can be useful also to record what he eats and drinks at each meal and the amount of carbohydrate (in grams) it contains. I would highly recommend getting a copy of Type 1 Diabetes in Children Adolescents by Ragnar Hanas, without doubt the best book available for Type 1. You might also like to get a KIDSAC from JDRF which contains a Rufus Bear to help him with injections and fingerpricks.

For you, I would recommend reading Adrienne's guide for newly-diagnosed parents which may help you understand the new situation you find yourself in. Please ask any questions you may have, there are lots of friendly, experienced people here who can help. Although diabetes is a serious condition there is no reason why your son cannot live a full and happy life with it, there are countless examples of people at the very top of their tree in all walks of life, so although it may take a bit of extra planning, it can be managed very well 🙂
 
Thank you very much for your reply Northerner! We do have close contact with a DSN, she's really lovely and to be honest from what I've seen of the Diabetes Specialist Team when my son was in hospital, they've made me feel comfortable enough that we've got more than enough support available at all times. I can't praise them enough.

However, I myself don't have much energy at the minute, I'm tired from waking up doing night blood sugars and just feel fairly crappy in general. I've got a million and one questions / thoughts running through my head and it's all a bit overwhelming. I'm powering through and keep strong for my son as no doubt he will be feeling just as overwhelmed and scared!! I'm determined to learn as much as I can and try my hardest to keep his blood sugars down and keep him as 'normal' as possible
 
Also he did get given a Rufus bear but refused to accept it as he's 'a big lad' who builds things on minecraft and teddies aren't his 'thing' He's so funny!! So now he's given it to his little sister as a souvenir of his diagnosis x
 
Also he did get given a Rufus bear but refused to accept it as he's 'a big lad' who builds things on minecraft and teddies aren't his 'thing' He's so funny!! So now he's given it to his little sister as a souvenir of his diagnosis x
Haha! I love it! 🙂 Hopefully, his mature attitude will help him with the fingerpricking and injections 🙂
 
Hello Leanne, thought I'd welcome you here too! just to answer a question you raised, yes having high blood sugars can definetely make you very tired. I remember when I first went onto insulin and it started to bring down my levels it was like waking up again. I remember walking down the garden and chatting with my husband and him saying, wow, you are back!
 
Haha! I love it! 🙂 Hopefully, his mature attitude will help him with the fingerpricking and injections 🙂
He is actually helping me with the finger pricks which I'm so proud of him for doing, seen as it's such early days.

He is however very scared of the insulin injections. He's started to get comfortable with his arm being used but little does he know today will be tummy and legs. I'm trying to use alternative sites early on so that he gets used to injections being given anywhere as quickly as possible.
 
Good plan 🙂 It's the anticipation rather than the actual injection that can be a problem, as people can tense up and this may make it hurt, so best to be as matter-of-fact and straightforward as you can be. The glargine/lantus can sting a little, so it's the stuff rather than the needle that he may feel sometimes.
 
Good plan 🙂 It's the anticipation rather than the actual injection that can be a problem, as people can tense up and this may make it hurt, so best to be as matter-of-fact and straightforward as you can be. The glargine/lantus can sting a little, so it's the stuff rather than the needle that he may feel sometimes.
That makes sense as last night he said it hurt more when I have him the glargine as I've been trying to read up on how to insert and remove the injections as pain free as possible. Do you have any suggestions for this and/or in the leg and tummy?
 
Hi and welcome Leanne - I am no help on the type 1 front but there are plenty of others who have much more experience than I do.
 
That makes sense as last night he said it hurt more when I have him the glargine as I've been trying to read up on how to insert and remove the injections as pain free as possible. Do you have any suggestions for this and/or in the leg and tummy?
Some people find rubbing an ice cube on the injection area first can reduce any sensation of pain. There is a different insulin called 'levemir' that can be used instead of lantus which works slightly differently and therefore doesn't have the lantus 'sting', although it usually requires two injections rather than one. Somethng that may have been mentioned to you is the possibility of an insulin pump which only needs changing every 2-3 days and therefore needs far fewer injections, but it's very early days so they will probably want to get him stable on the injections first.
 
Some people find rubbing an ice cube on the injection area first can reduce any sensation of pain. There is a different insulin called 'levemir' that can be used instead of lantus which works slightly differently and therefore doesn't have the lantus 'sting', although it usually requires two injections rather than one. Somethng that may have been mentioned to you is the possibility of an insulin pump which only needs changing every 2-3 days and therefore needs far fewer injections, but it's very early days so they will probably want to get him stable on the injections first.
I am so grateful to you for all of your reassuring and information. His DSN mentioned that the pump is something we could definitely in the future but as you've already said, she recommended that we get his insulin under control first 🙂
 
That was meant to say "that he could definitely benefit from"!
 
Hello Leanne and welcome to the forum. 🙂 A lot to take in at first (and quite hard work) but as with most things it does get easier over time - although it can still be hard work. 😉 It sounds like he's a brave little boy, so with you and rest of the family helping him he's got the best start. Good luck. 🙂
 
Hi Leanne, I am a type 2 and my daughter is type 1, she was diagnosed at 11 months old, I know all the feelings your going through, I can tell you it does get easier. Whatever our children do in life we as parents will always be there to support them. You will be thinking your brave boy will need all this extra attention, and worry how difficult it is for him, facts are kids adjust so easily it will become part of his daily routine. We (my wife and I) found it just as difficult when our daughter reached 12 and was looking after herself and you have to start letting go. You will have ups and downs, but you will get through it all. My little baby of 11 months is now 32 and has provided me with my best present ever, a fantastic 3 year old grandson.

Wish you and your family all the best with his care, but I know you will be fine.

Always happy to answer any queries if I can. Al
 
Hi Leanne, I am a type 2 and my daughter is type 1, she was diagnosed at 11 months old, I know all the feelings your going through, I can tell you it does get easier. Whatever our children do in life we as parents will always be there to support them. You will be thinking your brave boy will need all this extra attention, and worry how difficult it is for him, facts are kids adjust so easily it will become part of his daily routine. We (my wife and I) found it just as difficult when our daughter reached 12 and was looking after herself and you have to start letting go. You will have ups and downs, but you will get through it all. My little baby of 11 months is now 32 and has provided me with my best present ever, a fantastic 3 year old grandson.

Wish you and your family all the best with his care, but I know you will be fine.

Always happy to answer any queries if I can. Al
Thank you for your reply. It's so hard to understand that it will feel easier because at the minute I don't see how that will happen, however I trust that it will get better. You're right in the fact that kids adjust, I do feel like I'm taking it a lot harder than my son is. I somehow feel like I've failed him, especially how he was so thirsty and needing the toilet loads. I put that down to drinking all of the time and was trying to curb his drinking, more so at night, as I was also under a nurse for bed wetting. Never in my wildest dreams did I think I was taking him along to the doctors and the nurse was going to tell me his urine test was abnormal. It's crazy and scary x
 
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