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Ohhhhh, type 2 is a choice. I never knew that. Well, I choose not to have it then. Er, that doesn't seem to have worked. Next!

There IS a lot of ignorance out there and to be honest I can't blame them. If something doesn't affect or impact you why would you know about it, and that is the case for the majority of people. Sadly, it doesn't stop them making daft, ill informed comments though.
 
Ohhhhh, type 2 is a choice. I never knew that. Well, I choose not to have it then. Er, that doesn't seem to have worked. Next!

There IS a lot of ignorance out there and to be honest I can't blame them. If something doesn't affect or impact you why would you know about it, and that is the case for the majority of people. Sadly, it doesn't stop them making daft, ill informed comments though.
Yeah there's so much ignorance and stereotyping about the d out there, but that comment really got me wound up, as a healthy middle age bloke who cycles 12 miles a day and was only a couple of stone overweight and never liking fizzy/sweet stuff then getting diagnosed as type 2 came a hell of a shock but it sure as hell wasn't a choice.
 
I haven't got diabetes cos I'm not fat .I wish I had a £ for every time I have heard that
Carol
 
I know I started this thread last year but I'm followingg advice of not starting a new theard when it's related to what I said in past. now almost everytime I say I'm come down with something or not feeling well or something isn't quite right in get comments like "is it the diabeties"
 
I know I started this thread last year but I'm followingg advice of not starting a new theard when it's related to what I said in past. now almost everytime I say I'm come down with something or not feeling well or something isn't quite right in get comments like "is it the diabeties"
Makes sense. My first thought whenever I feel unwell is “is it my diabetes” too. It often is the cause of feeling unwell so it’s important to test when you feel off.
 
Makes sense. My first thought whenever I feel unwell is “is it my diabetes” too. It often is the cause of feeling unwell so it’s important to test when you feel off.
No sorry I mean gernal illness not just a one time feeling off. Like when "I've not been we'll this week" etc whenever I'm gernarlly ill.
 
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Member of staff at A&E:
"You should never give them insulin when they are not eating normally."

I object to being referred to as one of "them"
No one gives me insulin except me.
Eating or not never stop giving insulin to a type 1 unless you want to kill.
 
Member of staff at A&E:
"You should never give them insulin when they are not eating normally."

I object to being referred to as one of "them"
No one gives me insulin except me.
Eating or not never stop giving insulin to a type 1 unless you want to kill.
Oh I heard horror stories about hostpals trying to mange peoples diabetties if I ever have an overnight stay in a hostpal(not that im planing to) im insisting that I do it.
 
I know I started this thread last year but I'm followingg advice of not starting a new theard when it's related to what I said in past. now almost everytime I say I'm come down with something or not feeling well or something isn't quite right in get comments like "is it the diabeties"
I know what you mean. Early on after my diagnosis, I was a bit tetchy, and my husband said sympathetically 'Oh, is it your blood sugars?' and I bit his head of with 'No I’m just in a bad mood!'

Seriously, though, I have read other threads on here where people have been to their GP with a problem, and been fobbed off with 'Oh it’s your diabetes' and the collective wisdom of the forum has always been to respond to your GP with 'OK, let’s pretend for a minute that I don’t have diabetes. If I came in here presenting with this particular symptom as a non-diabetic person, what would you be thinking?'
 
I know what you mean. Early on after my diagnosis, I was a bit tetchy, and my husband said sympathetically 'Oh, is it your blood sugars?' and I bit his head of with 'No I’m just in a bad mood!'

Seriously, though, I have read other threads on here where people have been to their GP with a problem, and been fobbed off with 'Oh it’s your diabetes' and the collective wisdom of the forum has always been to respond to your GP with 'OK, let’s pretend for a minute that I don’t have diabetes. If I came in here presenting with this particular symptom as a non-diabetic person, what would you be thinking?'
Saying that though when I spoke to my doctors before digouous they diagnosed me with a thoart infection.
 
Just before I got diagnosed with diabetes I was quite poorly, along with the usual symptoms of (untreated) diabetes I endured a large thrombosis in my right calf muscle. The thrombosis took about a month to go down, while my leg recovered, I felt worse and worse and worse.
I was so relieved when the test results showed diabetes, as I had feared I could have cancer, or AIDS, or any number of fatal conditions.
When I asked the Dr about my thrombosis he said something along the lines of "Diabetes: causes, allows, and exacerbates, a long list of ailments." So even if it isn't caused by diabetes, just having diabetes makes it worse.
 
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Diabetes In your throat?
That's was what was causing the dry thought and month and the other symptom that weren't to do with my throat
 
For myself, aside from all of the "Are you SURE you can eat that" it's the sheer overreaction of people around me.

Sleep in? I must have had a hypo in my sleep and gone into a coma.

Gone on my lunch break? Several interruptions checking on how I'm managing to cope with food.

Libre alarm goes off? Better phone an ambulance🙄.

In all seriousness though, I'm incredibly grateful to have so many caring people around me.
 
For myself, aside from all of the "Are you SURE you can eat that" it's the sheer overreaction of people around me.

Sleep in? I must have had a hypo in my sleep and gone into a coma.

Gone on my lunch break? Several interruptions checking on how I'm managing to cope with food.

Libre alarm goes off? Better phone an ambulance🙄.

In all seriousness though, I'm incredibly grateful to have so many caring people around me.
Oh yes I get it when people freak out over a signal reading I have it at work somethings. There's one great manger though who is always making sure im okay In shift if he's there but not in an oversteping way he's the one that told me to go home when I turned up not feeling great on friday(miss quite a lot shifts in the last couple weeks due to something going on)
 
For myself, aside from all of the "Are you SURE you can eat that" it's the sheer overreaction of people around me.

Sleep in? I must have had a hypo in my sleep and gone into a coma.

Gone on my lunch break? Several interruptions checking on how I'm managing to cope with food.

Libre alarm goes off? Better phone an ambulance🙄.

In all seriousness though, I'm incredibly grateful to have so many caring people around me.
Annoying though it is, probably better that people care too much than not enough though. We’ve had it both ways. My daughter does ballet, had to change dance schools when she was about 8 due to timing clashes with other things. At the first ballet school, after she was diagnosed I went to see the teacher to explain, and her reaction was the same as if I’d said my daughter had had a cold last week, which meant I never felt safe leaving her there unattended as it didn’t seem that the diabetes was being taken seriously. Whereas the teacher at the new school totally gets it, allows us to keep labelled cans of drinks in her fridge for hypos, used to ask me for permission whenever she wanted to give the class little chocolate treats at the end of shows (eventually got used to the fact that I always said yes and stopped asking). Used to phone me a lot but now knows how to deal with it if necessary.

Similarly, daughter has been having a lot of problems lately with non-epileptic seizures which we’re still trying to get to the bottom of, she has also developed Tourette syndrome which can cause quite a lot of havoc. Some teachers panic, some, who have obviously had first aid training, handle it much better. One teacher sent me quite a scathing email when she hadn’t done very well in a test, I replied that I was very sorry that she was having some health problems, what a shame that when a child doesn’t do well it is automatically assumed that they must be messing about or not paying attention instead of asking whether there is a problem. Then one day she had a seizure in his class which went on for so long that an ambulance was called, and he finally gets it now!

I think I’d rather have people checking up on her a bit too often than not taking it seriously!
 
Annoying though it is, probably better that people care too much than not enough though. We’ve had it both ways. My daughter does ballet, had to change dance schools when she was about 8 due to timing clashes with other things. At the first ballet school, after she was diagnosed I went to see the teacher to explain, and her reaction was the same as if I’d said my daughter had had a cold last week, which meant I never felt safe leaving her there unattended as it didn’t seem that the diabetes was being taken seriously. Whereas the teacher at the new school totally gets it, allows us to keep labelled cans of drinks in her fridge for hypos, used to ask me for permission whenever she wanted to give the class little chocolate treats at the end of shows (eventually got used to the fact that I always said yes and stopped asking). Used to phone me a lot but now knows how to deal with it if necessary.

Similarly, daughter has been having a lot of problems lately with non-epileptic seizures which we’re still trying to get to the bottom of, she has also developed Tourette syndrome which can cause quite a lot of havoc. Some teachers panic, some, who have obviously had first aid training, handle it much better. One teacher sent me quite a scathing email when she hadn’t done very well in a test, I replied that I was very sorry that she was having some health problems, what a shame that when a child doesn’t do well it is automatically assumed that they must be messing about or not paying attention instead of asking whether there is a problem. Then one day she had a seizure in his class which went on for so long that an ambulance was called, and he finally gets it now!

I think I’d rather have people checking up on her a bit too often than not taking it seriously!
Absolutely, that's why I added the "in all seriousness" bit at the end of my post 🙂
 
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