@Jackster70
I just wanted to say Hi. Like you I am recently diagnosed.... the start was awful. I got no info from my GP as to what to do so I felt like I'd got a life sentence with no idea what to do. So many tears and upsets.
I got a blood glucose meter-
https://www.glucorx.co.uk/shop/glucorx-q-meter/ I picked that one becuase it was mentioned somewhere on the NHS diabetes pages as one that got presecribed, I had no idea what I was buying. The sticks are £9.13 for a pot of 50 - I buy 2 pots a month. It's basic but does exactly what I need- measures my blook sugar and is easy to use.
Then I looked at one meal at a time. I left the rest of my eating as usual and just did one thing at a time.
I started with breakfast, as I always ate 2 pieces of wholemeal toast. I found that caused my levels to still be higher than I wanted 2 hours later. So then I tried porridge. By blood level goes up as expected but always drops back down when I test 2 hours later. I tried other things but decided to stick with porridge as it keeps me full all morning and gets me my daily dairy fix as well.
Then I did the same with my packed lunch. Tried different things and now I know what my body will tolerate. Yours will react differently, that's the problem. There is no definite answer with type 2- it depends on a person's build, tolerances, lots of things.... the list goes on.
Alongside that, I record things on my phone.
I have Nutricheck app - I use it to track carbs- I have set a target of 130g a day which is doable for me. Other people set themselves a much lower limit .... I tried that but it made me so miserable and caused a lot of stress with my OH who does all the cooking here so I've settled on 130g for now. It costs about £24 a year for the app- you can scan barcodes, lookup any foods and store your own meals.
I also bought Diabetes Connect. That's just a few pounds a year for the full version. It was created by a doctor to store all your data in one place. When I test I put the reading in my phone, it takes seconds. It colour codes it for me- green if it's in range etc.
I've settled on testing 5 times a day ish
- before breakfast - that gives me a baseline of how I am from yesterday
- 2 hrs after breakfast
- before lunch (work means I can't test 2 hours after lunch). If I am running high I will take something out of my lunch.
- before tea
- 2 hours after tea.
As I pay for test strips, I want them to be useful. My next step will be to stop testing after breakfast as I can almost predict what my result will be.
I'm not saying that things are easy. I am always aware of this thing that can make me ill if I don't deal with it, but it is manageable. I've lost weight, with little effort, because I am consious of the impact eating things has on my body.
I'm still not happy with eating out - I like to go and have treaty food, that I wouldn't have at home. If I'm just going to have salad... seems little point. So that is something I need to relax about, as having some treats once in a while won't hurt long-term.
I guess what I'm trying to say is it will get easier for you. When it feels to much, make one little change and see the difference it makes. This is a marathon and not a spint .... worse than that, its a marathon without end but there are people here who will support you. You just need to ask.