I am a bit peeved as I sent a long email a couple of weeks ago to his DSN and have heard nothing. I have phoned before and have had to leave messages and chase them up before a call back, so thought an email would be better where I could write all my worries down. He had been really messing with it a few weeks ago and we had two spells of him being just like he was before diagnosis, sleeping all the time, dry lips etc, and last week I refused to let him go out for some Pepsi Max until he tested and told me what it was. I told him I could see all the signs and wanted to know his result. He did test, and told me it was just over 17. I told him to go and buy the drink then have a decent amount of insulin, which he did. I have only today learnt that he fibbed about the 17 though, it was 23.4. No wonder he was so sleepy. I did tell him it was obvious to me he wasn't taking enough Novorapid, to which he said he keeps forgetting (yeah right!) so I have gone back to telling him every evening meal what the units are (and adding a couple here and there to help bring him down) and he is now using his insulin again, though still 'forgetting' once or twice a day. I dread to think what his next HbA1c is. We are meant to be getting a home 'educational' visit end Oct/early Nov, but haven't had a call at all. Of course it will be hard anyway as he will lie through his teeth, and go mad if I say anything. I, of course, only know half of what I do through sneaking a look at his monitor and pens, which isn't good either. At least at the moment he seems well and lively, so I am not as worried as I was a couple of weeks back, but he definitely needs someone to get through to him.