Have you tried testing to see what actual effect the 'real stuff' has on your levels? I would imagine a teaspoon scraped across a slice of toast/oatcake etc. wouldn't add many carbs but still provide the flavour. You've got me wanting some Rose's Lime marmalade now, haven't had any for years!
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The low sugar/diabetes friendly can contain sweeteners that can cause gastric upset, so generally best avoided (they used to advertise stuff as 'diabetic jam etc. but that's against the law now). I wrote a poem about diabetic jam
Ah! You’re diabetic? Well, don’t worry my dear,
We’ve got all sorts of goodies that are suitable here!
There’s diabetic chocolate and diabetic cake,
And diabetic jam – took me ages to make!
And diabetic sweets in all sorts of flavours –
For someone like you they’re heavenly saviours!
So don’t feel deprived, they’re especially for you!
I’ve heard sugar would kill you – is that really true?
Now you might find the sweeteners are rather emetic,
But you’ll just have to suffer since you’re diabetic…
I should also mention they cost twice the price
Of ordinary sweet stuff, but don’t taste as nice…
What’s that? You’re declining? Well how can that be?
But you can't eat normally, like people like me!
You can? Well, my goodness, I’ve learned something new!
My business is finished, and no thanks to you!
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