Hi Pamjanet.
It's perfectly normal to feel this way. Right now you're on a steep learning curve as well as having to change the eating habits if a lifetime, possibly combined with little or poor info from your diabetes nurse/doc.
I promise you it does get easier, it just won't happen overnight but slowly and surely , it will !
Us T2s are more fortunate in one respect. Our D is usually more forgiving in the beginning, giving us time to get our heads around it. It doesn't mean we should ignore it though as we're only storing up trouble for the future.
Those meals are rather carby.
To give you a few ideas Have a look at the thread, what did you eat yesterday.
https://forum.diabetes.org.uk/boards/threads/what-did-you-eat-yesterday.30349/
I do eat some potatoes, I have a couple of new potatoes or if we're having chips, I only have about 6 chips, though I do sometimes fall off the wagon
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If you like sausages, look out for 'Black farmer ' yummy or 'Heck' yum sausages they are both high meat content which means they're low carb.