I suspect Bev it's more to do with the hospital I was at, rather than timing - I was a teenager less than 10 years ago. You're making it sound like all this happened in the dark ages whereas I was in the child clinic as recently as 2002. I didnt do that you did - you likened it to having to be with children playing lego. We had Lantus and blood testing and pumps and everything, you know. The only major advances in T1 therapy since then (to my mind) have been the introduction of CGMS (still very rare), Levemir and loosening of funding for pumps to make them more widespread. The fact is I'm on the same treatment regime I was on 12 years ago largely because it's still the best regime according to NICE guidelines as I don't meet the criteria for a pump. So please, don't be quite so dismissive of my age or suggest my experience has no relevance - I'm sure you'll find in less populated areas they don't have all the perks you have with your clinic. Not being dismissive just going on what you are telling us - your clinic had a mix of ages that we dont have now. I can accept my experience isn't necessarily typical of all teens with diabetes - maybe you could also accept that yours isn't necessarily the norm for everyone too? The circles we move in this is the norm.
My particular hospital did want to run a transitional clinic (which I agree is essential, the leap from child to adult clinic can be a bit jarring) but the fact was they simply had neither the staff nor enough patients to make this worthwhile. Happily our team are able to offer this and its a great success.
'Being an adult' isn't really an appropriate qualification in its own right though. Once again, I can only speak for the clinic I went to but the care team there were paediatric specialists. I'm sure they could provide outline guidance but conversely I very much doubt they'd be particularly up to date as it wouldn't be a field they'd be expected to be current in. Not correct - our team are able to answer all these questions at whatever age the young person asks them - which is left to them to ask.
If the majority of your job is treating under-12s, you probably aren't particularly familiar with the diabetes experience of sex hypos or what vodka does to your glycogen release system to the same extent that a doctor specialising in diabetes in adults would be. Luckily our team are - but I agree that some arent - however - dare I say this......thats why I also like to take Alex to the Conferences as they also have these talks there - two Consultants last year told our teens all about their sexual exploits as they both had a pump and explained the full story from beginning to end including hypo's and other stuff to our teens who all asked questions at the end! Our team also do talks at these Conferences which is why we are with them - gold standard care.Others talked to the teenagers about alcohol and advised how to drink safely - and yes explaining all about what happens to the liver at 3 in the morning which is why our teenagers now have a better understanding and idea of how to drink safely - all excellent advice - even though your not keen on us taking them to Conferences.....
Another flipside to this is I personally would not be comfortable discussing these matters with a consultant who's known me since I was a child, it'd feel a bit like discussing it with my parents. If my parents had a close working relationship with the care team I would be particularly concerned about patient confidentiality and the fact that my mother would be sitting outside the room wouldn't inspire me with much confidence either. Teams are not allwed to share any private information with a parent unless the young person gives permission - so not a problem. Again, yes, I can only speak for myself but I'm sure plenty of teenager will have similar feelings.
I think it's great that Alex appears to have a lot of support around him to manage his diabetes and that he is the personality type that appears to respond well to that support. However, not all teenagers will respond quite so well. There is value in exploring why that is, and I'm sure your experiences and way of doing things would be beneficial for plenty of families in the same boat as you. I'm also sure that there will be teenagers and their families reading my experiences and reactions and seeing a lot of themselves in there too. Some teens benefit from having intensive support and parental involvement. Some suffer for it. It's also probably quite hard to predict which teen is which until it's a bit too late, too.