Newly diagonosed and scared

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Hi everyone,

Im new to the forum and thought i would say hi.

As the title suggest i was diagonsed with diabetes yesterday, An im scared.
My doctor is sending me to my local hospital for further tests to see if im type one or two. My doctor is concerned as im two young to get type two (im only 24). . .

Been doing alot of research and im scared as i have a 19 month old son and im worried im not going to be around for him as he is growing up and i love him so much im terrified.

If anyone can give me some of thier experiances it would be appreciated!

Many thanks

PS - Sorry if i sound like a rambling fool!
 
Hi welcome to the forum ...its perfectly normal to feel scared we have all been there you are not alone ...firstly they need to decide what you are ...but that will be confusing in its own right ...so for now have a good look around the forum and we'll be here for you x....dont worry about rambling ranting etc ...no questions are regarded silly here ...🙂
 
Hi Oynx, welcome to the forum 🙂 Try not to get in a panic about things, diabetes is a condition that can be managed successfully and with some effort you should be able to live a long, happy and healthy life. There can be terrible consequences, no denying it, but if you are prepared to learn about how diabetes affects you and make any necessary lifestyle and diet adjustments then you will reduce the risks significantly. Many of the horror stories are due to poor management of diabetes, or simply come from a time when treatment options were not as good as they are today - and improving all the time!

It is possible to be Type 2 at a younger age, just as it is possible to be Type 1 when you are older (I was 49!). The tests will confirm your type and this will allow the doctors to decide on the appropriate treatment for you.

Have a look at the 'Useful links' for some information to get you started:

http://www.diabetessupport.co.uk/boards/showthread.php?t=10406

Try not to get overwhelmed by everything, you will have time to get to grips with things and we will be here should you have any questions - nothing is considered 'silly', so ask away!.🙂
 
Thank you very much 🙂 I have been trying to read as much as i can, i have already changed my diet and its only been one day!! Lots of pasta, vegtables and fruit now! I even got very paranoid and have told my partner that under no circumstances is he to give our 19 month old any rubbish (chips beans etc) ever again and he is to eat fresh fruit instead or dried bannana and raisens. As a mum im just dont want anything to stop me being with my boy and thats what im worried about. I can ive withmy partner and parents but i couldnt live wihtout my son.

Im very confused as to the treatments of type 1 and type 2 diabetes. I know the differnce between the two types ( at least i think i do ) but not sure on the treatments.

How will they checkt o see which type i am?

My gp has told me nothing about diabetes he merely said you have diabetes - wait for some papaers from the hospital, see oyu later. ....... I know nothing and what i do know i have researched myself. Maybe thats why im so Scared.

Its nice to know im not alone and i can tell coming onto this forum and speaking to poeple is going to help 🙂 Thank you ever so much for oyur lovely welcomes and im sorry again if ever i ramble or get into a tiis of rambling - i ramble when im scared or anxious xx
 
Hi Oynx.

Welcome from me too. AS has been said, you're in probably the best place to learn all the positives about both types.

We're not all superfit but some of us have had diabetes for many years and are still jogging along (some literally). There's no reason why you shouldn't be bouncing grandchildren on your knee in another 30 years time (assuming you're not already in your 90s 😱) and should be able to live as long and healthily as most other people.

It's really upsetting that GPs are leaving newly diagnosed Diabetics with no information at all.

Rob
 
HIYA!

lol nope not 90 - im only a tender 24 🙂 my little boy is 19 months - so no grandchildren yet - thank goodnees! I havent finished making his brothers and sisters yet! lol

I do find it quite insulting to be left in the dark and scared like this. Apparently stress can make diabetes worse and leaving me with no information has made me stress and i feel iller then normal.

should i complain to my gps practise manager?

x
 
ok onyx ...and breathe ...
there are differences between all the types ....see the thread boards ...i try and find you links ...I am T2 and so my panceas is still producing insulin but its not being effective I take medication to slow down the amount of gulcose my liver dumps into my blood stream so the poor ole insulin can get a better chance of coping with it ....as a T2 in my opinion its all about moderation...and one step at a time ...firstly start to cut out all refined sugar and start to be aware of hidden sugars ...fruit sadly for me is a no no in the amounts i used to eat ..i was a real fruit bat....😱 but now have to restrict my intake ...but we are all different 🙂
 
lol okay im breathing im breathing lol

lol this thing is already playing havoc with my nerves lol

I have been eating lots of fruit - is that something i shouldnt be doing? - I feel like throttling my gp for not telling me more!
 
Perfectly understandable when you have just been diagnosed - especially when you have been given no information! When I was first diagnosed I went home and started giving all the stuff I thought I could no longer eat to my neighbours! After a few months I learned that I could have kept most of the stuff! What you will come to learn too is that nothing is forbidden with diabetes, you just need to keep some of the 'naughtier' stuff for special treats.

If you look in the link I gave, there are some further links to GL diet books - these will give you the best idea of the types of food that are best for keeping your blood sugar under control. Start thinking 'carbohydrate'. Carbs are the things that will raise your blood sugar levels - things like potatoes, bread, rice, pasta etc. You will still be able to eat these things, but may need to keep an eye on portion size and also learn which types will release their glucose into your blood slowly when they are digested. A good example is bread - white bread is the worst, seeded or granary bread is generally much better as the seeds and grains slow the digestion and release of glucose.

As I said beofre, you will learn what food is best for you in time - there are some general principles, but people can react differently to the same things so it can be a very individual thing. We're here should you need any advice.

They can check your type by doing one or two tests. Type 1 is when your pancreas has slowed or stopped production of insulin, which you need to process the energy you get from food. They can check if this is happening by measuring something called C-peptide, which is produced in the same quantities as insulin - if it is low then your insulin production will also be low, suggesting Type 1. Type 1 is also what is known as an autoimmune disease where your own immune system attacks the cells in your pancreas - the test can check if this is happening to you. If you are Type 1, then the treatment will be insulin injections (don't worry, they are tiny needles that go into a layer of fat below the skin, not a vein or anything! Most of the time they are painless!)

Type 2 diabetes is generally due to something called 'insulin resistance' where you are still producing insulin but the body cannot use it properly. Type 2 can be controlled by modifications to diet and exercise, or by taking tablets which help to control the glucose. It is possible for Type 2s to be started on insulin injections, but relatively rare as they tend to be producing their own and just need some help to use it properly!

Hope this helps! 🙂
 
lol okay im breathing im breathing lol

lol this thing is already playing havoc with my nerves lol

I have been eating lots of fruit - is that something i shouldnt be doing? - I feel like throttling my gp for not telling me more!

no no dont stop anything too out of the oridinary at this point in time ...i used fruit as an example as i used to eat Bucket loads ! thinking i was being healthy but now realise that i have to moderate...you will find that the info your gp gave you is fairly standard
 
Hi Oynx, welcome to the forum. I can honestly say I know how you are feeling only being diagnosed a couple of weeks ago myself now and also being a newbie to this forum. And its very overwhelming the first few days when you have all these questions and queries constantly running through your mind.

I spent a long weekend in hospital with a cannula in each arm and only a booklet called "Understanding Diabetes" to learn more. It wasn't until the following Monday once I had seen the Diabetic Specialist Nurses that I had the opportunity to address those concerns and things began to seem a lot clearer and much less frightening. However in those first couple of days I very much had the same concerns and thoughts.

I hope you find this forum as helpful as so many other people have and that you get a clear plan of action moving forward soon. Keep us updated 😉
 
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Welcome to the forum Oynx 🙂

Just wondering, have they given you any medicine to take, like tablets or Insulin? Seems a bit laid back!
 
Hi there Oynx i was diagnosed at 26 im now 27 and have a 9 year and i had exactly the same fears back then, but now with my new healthier lifestyle i know i'm going to be around for my son alot longer, now your a member of this place that you will soon start to feel confident,happier and realise your not on your own, so well done on joining xx
 
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Hi Oynx

Welcome and well done- you have taken one of the most important steps in understanding and getting advice for your condition by coming in here🙂

You have been given some great advice already - I am sorry to hear that your GP was not more helpful - it seems rare to find a GP who will be able to give you the time and reassurance needed when they casually throw this diagnosis at you - please take comfort in this fact as you are not alone. I have always been very overweight and when my GP diagnosed me she told me that I was too heavy for her scales and to go to B&Q and get weighed on the builders scales. That scared me more than anything and I have never been to see her again - luckily we have a fairly large practice and I can see other GPS!

The good news is that you should get referred to a specialist nurse and consultant who will be much more able to advise and guide you through all aspects of the condition. In a way, the GP was right not to confuse you with a lot of advice as your type has not yet been confirmed - it would have been better had he/she explained that to you.

I get to see my DSN (our way of saying a diabetes specialist nurse) as often as I wish at my GP surgery so I have no excuse not to attend 😉 and the diabetes consultant visits the surgery too and I see him usually every 12 months. It may be different in your case as some people attend clinics at their local hospital. Don't be scared by this - it is better for you to see someone who is an expert rather than get half baked advice from someone who hasn't got the insight and time to reassure you😉

Good luck with the diagnosis and keep asking if in doubt - in the meantime, keep breathing:D xxx
 
Hello Oynx, welcome to the forum.

Hopefully, the more you learn about the condition, how it is affecting you personally and what you can do about it, the easier things will become.

I hope that you are as lucky as I have been and that you can put any fears that you have well and truly behind you.

Andy 🙂
 
Im so over whelmed with happiness! I have come on here this morning and seen the lovely replies. THANK YOU so much for all your advise and your support!! I feel as though i can ask you guys anything!

What happened was i am losing my hearing, have been having spells of tiredness and drinking bucket loads also feeling extremly weak some times.... i went to my doctor 6 months ago for a blood test nothing seemed wrong but the symptoms continued - i think my GP had had enough of me keep bothering him with the symptoms so he sent me for a glucose tolerance test - i think to just shut me up. The results came back at 14.8 mmol ... He explained that if its over 11 mmol then your diabetic .... He said he was sending me to to the hospital for further testing to see which type i am, He never mentioned anything about the 2 types, he never explained what the further tests were. All he said was they would tell me about it at the hospital. I asked him about medication, and he said he couldnt put me on medication because he doesnt know what to give me, as he doesnt know which type diabetic i am. But he said to read up on a GI diet and to follow that until i get my results. Everyone in my family are very surp[rised he hasnt given me meds - and i am disappointed because i feel really tired and just not myself tbh. - I get the feeling my doctor has not taken this seriously and im just another number, Doctors get bonus's for correctly diagonisng patients and i feel im just a bonus to him. Oh well

But on a positive not - i have you guys now 🙂 thank you once again for the advise and comfort!! We shall muddle through together eh lol

xxxxxxx
 
Hi Oynx, nice to see you feeling a little less stressed and worried this morning 🙂 When are you having the hospital tests? Hopefully soon. Both types of diabetes can display the kind of symptoms you've been having, but generally these get rapidly worse in someone with Type 1 because they simply don't have enough insulin. People with Type 2 generally take longer to notice the symptoms as they can start more slowly and a lot of people put them down to other things like stress, overwork, lack of sleep, age (not in your case!) etc.

If you are type 2 then it is possible that you won't need any medication, as improvements in diet and activity levels can improve your response to the insulin you are producing and get your blood sugar levels lower. The good news, whatever the type, once you start improving your levels you will feel so much better! Currently, for whatever reason, the energy from food you are eating is not getting to where it is needed properly. Once it does a lot of your symptoms will disappear over a few weeks and you will be able to keep up with your little one!

Just a note about the GI Diet - your doctor is right about this being a good approach to eating for everyone, not just diabetics. The GL diet I mentioned earlier is an improvement on GI and seen as a more practical approach, so if you intend to get books on the subject I would recommend GL 🙂
 
Hi Oynx, welcome to the forum.

You will find the answers to most of your questions here as we have a very knowledgable and helpful bunch of people on here.

Try not to worry too much about things, once you know which type you are things will become clearer.
 
Thanks for the advise northerner, i will take a look on the GL diet, would that be okay for my little boy though?

Hopefully i wont need medication, but if i dont do i still get checked? would i still need to monitor my sugar levels? Could the diabetes go away? **looks hopefull!!**

If i dont need medication - does that mean im not diabetic anymore? I hope so lol

x
 
Hi everyone,

Im new to the forum and thought i would say hi.

As the title suggest i was diagonsed with diabetes yesterday, An im scared.
My doctor is sending me to my local hospital for further tests to see if im type one or two. My doctor is concerned as im two young to get type two (im only 24). . .

Been doing alot of research and im scared as i have a 19 month old son and im worried im not going to be around for him as he is growing up and i love him so much im terrified.

If anyone can give me some of thier experiances it would be appreciated!

Many thanks

PS - Sorry if i sound like a rambling fool!
Dear onyx Try not to upset yourself too much, you are definetly not a rambling fool!, I had my child at 42 and I have had type1 for 21 yrs, yes I do get worried at times, but this is a great place for help and support and people are warm and friendly. Best wishes and take care Sheena🙂
 
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