Welcome to the forum
@MichelleN
It is worth mentioning that the eating plan that everyone ends up on will be slightly different, and that what works for one person may not suit another (either in taste/texture or in BG outcomes).
Do make sure you are retaining flexibility, and keeping options open. Rather than assinging loads of things to a ‘never again’ list I think it’s more workable to think of things as
‘often’, ‘less of it or less often’, ‘rarely’ and ‘not worth the bother’
And the same food might go into any category for different members!
This can be where a BG meter really helps, once you have a rough eating plan worked out, because you can check before and after different meals and see how they affect your BG (taking 2 readings allows you to see the meal rise)
You can also experiment with adding things back-in... or with reduced portions of things that may have been a bit spiky eg a full bowl of granola might be too much, but a bowl of full fat greek yoghurt, a handful of berries and a sprinkle of granola over the top might be even more delicious, keep you fuller for longer, and have a substantially reduced effect on your BG
Good luck, and let us know how you get on
🙂