Hi mally, welcome to the forum
🙂 It sounds very much to me like you have been left floundering. Rather than picking up bits and pieces of information here and there, I'd suggest having a read of
Jennifer's Advice and
Maggie Davey's letter for starters. Get yourself a copy of the excellent
Type 2 Diabetes: The First Year by Gretchen Becker, and you will be in a much better informed position about what it is all about
🙂 As has been suggested, testing to discover how different things affect your levels is the best and most efficient method of tailoring your diet so that you can enjoy maximum flexibility in what you eat, but also eat things that you can tolerate well. Have a read of
Test,Review, Adjust by Alan S to understand what this entails. If you have to buy your own meter and test strips, then the cheapest option we have come across is the
SD Codefree Meter which has
test strips at around £8 for 50 (most High St brands will charge £25-£30 for 50 test strips
😱). To help with making your food choices, I would recommend looking at the GL (Glycaemic Load) diet - this is an approach to selecting and combining foods so that they have a slow, steady impact on blood glucose levels.
The GL Diet for Dummies is a very good introduction
🙂
Diabetes can be a very individual condition, so it's important to learn the basics and then, by testing, determine your own tolerances to things. The good thing about diabetes is that it can be controlled well with the right knowledge and effort. It can take time and patience, so don't expect to turn things around overnight, but stick with it, ask questions, and you will get there!
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