Hey,
I (32) was diagnosed with Diabetes myself in November 2022 after I had to be hospitalised for a week with DKA. On admission my BG was 31.8 and KT was 7.2. They first diagnosed me with Type 1 and I had to inject insulin for a few weeks but then the result came back I was type 2 so I am now on Metformin - which I admittedly take sporadically, because I mainly manage by restricting carbs. I had known I was pre-diabetic but it was a big shock and I went low carb, cut all sugary drinks, lost 3 stone and had gone into remission by April 2023. I continue to remain in remission and test regularly. Usually BG 5-7 now - bit higher over Christmas... All good.
My mother (61) has had Diabetes for a number of years (don’t know how long exactly), but I hadn't realised how poorly she manages it until I myself was diagnosed. I even had to buy her a Glucomen machine and implore her to ask the doctor to restart her prescription Glucose, Ketone strips and lancets - and apparently, she hasn't used them for months! She also buys and consumes 24 pack pallets of full sugar drinks from wholesalers like Costco and will drink them instead of water (won't make simple adjustment to sugar free because "it doesn't taste the same"!). She also eats garbage and despite me explaining many times what the relationship between carbs and blood sugar was, why glycaemic index is important - still eats carb loaded junk (I estimate her diet is 50-60% carbs solid - 80% if you count all the sugary drinks)
What frustrates me is, if she just stopped DRINKING sugar - she would be in a much better position. The diet can come later.
Tonight I came home from the cinema and she was passed out sleeping on the couch in an awkward position, I woke her up and she was very drowsy. I got her to test her bloods and it was 25.6 with ketones of 0.4. She said this was "normal" for her and she had "even been the hospital for something else today and they tested her and didn't say anything about the blood sugar level". I have noticed over the past 2 years her mind is dulling a lot, something I imagine is related to the capillary damage she is doing in her brain - and every other organ.
She just will not take seriously how damaging sustained levels like that are even though I am sure she knows really (she is a Mental Health Nurse herself!)
The thing is I get that she is an adult but is there ANYTHING I can do to get the doctors to look at her treatment regime? I feel like even if I can scare her into managing it properly, it will only last a week or two and she'll be back to being like this. It feels like she won't be around much longer if she carries on riding so high all the time...
I feel like she needs some kind of intervention and perhaps even putting on insulin - because she just will not adjust her diet or behaviour and I know she won’t. Does she have to ask for this or can I refer her as a family member?
Thanks
I (32) was diagnosed with Diabetes myself in November 2022 after I had to be hospitalised for a week with DKA. On admission my BG was 31.8 and KT was 7.2. They first diagnosed me with Type 1 and I had to inject insulin for a few weeks but then the result came back I was type 2 so I am now on Metformin - which I admittedly take sporadically, because I mainly manage by restricting carbs. I had known I was pre-diabetic but it was a big shock and I went low carb, cut all sugary drinks, lost 3 stone and had gone into remission by April 2023. I continue to remain in remission and test regularly. Usually BG 5-7 now - bit higher over Christmas... All good.
My mother (61) has had Diabetes for a number of years (don’t know how long exactly), but I hadn't realised how poorly she manages it until I myself was diagnosed. I even had to buy her a Glucomen machine and implore her to ask the doctor to restart her prescription Glucose, Ketone strips and lancets - and apparently, she hasn't used them for months! She also buys and consumes 24 pack pallets of full sugar drinks from wholesalers like Costco and will drink them instead of water (won't make simple adjustment to sugar free because "it doesn't taste the same"!). She also eats garbage and despite me explaining many times what the relationship between carbs and blood sugar was, why glycaemic index is important - still eats carb loaded junk (I estimate her diet is 50-60% carbs solid - 80% if you count all the sugary drinks)
What frustrates me is, if she just stopped DRINKING sugar - she would be in a much better position. The diet can come later.
Tonight I came home from the cinema and she was passed out sleeping on the couch in an awkward position, I woke her up and she was very drowsy. I got her to test her bloods and it was 25.6 with ketones of 0.4. She said this was "normal" for her and she had "even been the hospital for something else today and they tested her and didn't say anything about the blood sugar level". I have noticed over the past 2 years her mind is dulling a lot, something I imagine is related to the capillary damage she is doing in her brain - and every other organ.
She just will not take seriously how damaging sustained levels like that are even though I am sure she knows really (she is a Mental Health Nurse herself!)
The thing is I get that she is an adult but is there ANYTHING I can do to get the doctors to look at her treatment regime? I feel like even if I can scare her into managing it properly, it will only last a week or two and she'll be back to being like this. It feels like she won't be around much longer if she carries on riding so high all the time...
I feel like she needs some kind of intervention and perhaps even putting on insulin - because she just will not adjust her diet or behaviour and I know she won’t. Does she have to ask for this or can I refer her as a family member?
Thanks
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