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miscarriage

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Thanks everyone for all your kind words. It's an awful time for me. Feel so cross I feel like it is all my fault. Broke down the other night I cried all evening it was terrible. Going to see a councillor tomorrow evening. I did see one when I had a miscarriage the beginning of the year but it didn't help me, hopefully this one will be better. Sorry everyone for ranting but I need to get it off my chest. Thanks again to you all for your comments. X
 
My heart goes out to you as well, it is such a horrid thing to have to go through. I too hope it goes well with the councellor.
 
Oh Karen I'm so sorry to hear how miserable you are feeling. You mustn't feel it was your fault at all - miscarriages are sadly very common indeed, the trouble is people don't freely talk about the experience so when it happens to you, you feel completely isolated. I hope the counselling helps you come to terms with it, and after a period of grieving maybe you can start to think about trying again. xx
 
Karen thinking of you hope it goes ok with the counsellor x
 
really sorry to hear you're feeling so awful karen - I know there's probably nothing I can say that will make you feel better but please don't feel its your fault, because it isn't.
good luck with the counsellor and know that you can always come here if you ever need anything (and no need to apologise!!).
sending you lots of hugs and positive vibes xx
 
Thanks again to everyone who has commented. I went to see the councillor today and she was really nice to me. Hopefully it will get easier to deal with. X
 
karenratcliffe said:
Thanks again to everyone who has commented. I went to see the councillor today and she was really nice to me. Hopefully it will get easier to deal with. X
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I hope so Karen. I'm glad to hear you got to see someone who sounds very understanding.
 
So sorry to hear this Karen, I don't know what to say to make it any better apart from sending big hugs. I've had friends who have had miscarriages and gone on to have healthy pregnancies so don't give up hope xx
 
I had a miscarriage at 12 weeks with my first pregnancy (it had died at about 7 weeks). I actually delayed my 12 week scan as was on holiday so started bleeding there and passed it also, but would have had to have had a horrible scan like that otherwise (I'm not sure what would be worse). I went on to have a perfectly healthy pregnancy and now have a lovely 3 year old daughter 🙂 It is the worse thing that has ever happened to me but it definitely gets easier to deal with. How are you getting on now? I noticed it happened a couple of months ago?

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So sorry to hear of your loss. I really hope the counsellor will help you, along with the rest of your support network.
 
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