maryjaneholland
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It's so easy to lose weight, I reduced carbs and became skeleton overnight, remission is easy too, yeah unsolicited unwanted unhelpful "advice" whatever...
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Yes, I have had the "thin" comment more than a couple of times, usually along the lines of "you can't have diabetes, you are too thin."
On one occasion, a colleague who I barely knew (and male) laid into me telling me I need to put on weight (I didn't: my BMI was well within the "healthy" range) and I wondered 1. what right did he have and 2.how much he would have said if he thought I was overweight?
Hello, I find the best way to deal with desert situations is “not for me thanks. The main course was fantastic & more than enough.” I went out for a meal a while back with a bunch of mates. (4 of us. Just middle aged lads on a night out.) To my joy the unanimous choice an Argentinian “style” streak house. I’m the only diabetic in the crew. (They know I am, but that’s as far as it goes.) There was an order of chips between us? (Actually, for the other 3.) Seems like they were watching the carbs just for weight management. Lol, the chip basket was never finished even though I was coaxed to try a couple.)I've just come back from a business trip where I had very little control over what I was being served. Generally the same meal was served to the entire group. Occasionally I would quietly tell the server I have diabetes, and ask them not to serve me dessert, which was all fine. But one place we went to had a meal based on alt/medicine principles and the owner started off by telling the group that the green soup starter was to "lower your blood sugar levels," which didn't sound right to me, but I let it pass.
I told the server not to bring me dessert and the owner then told me that if I followed her advice for a couple of months, she could completely reverse my diabetes. I told her I'd die without insulin, and shut that down pretty fast.
In the months since I was first diagnosed, I have noticed there are some people ready to weigh in uninvited with advice about supplements, nutrition, you name it. No doctor has ever bounded across the room at a social event to start telling me how to change my life, but there are some people who can't wait to do it. It's very annoying.
It's worse for a friend of mine who has kids with Type 1, as other people will berate her to her face about the sugar they imagine she must be feeding her kids.
Does this happen to anybody else?
Well, it's happened to me, a bit.I wonder whether a bit of sexism is involved when on several occasions people (both men and women) have immediately stared at my waist area and exclaimed 'but you're thin!' when they’ve discovered I have diabetes. Do they stare at men's figures and make the same comment, I wonder?