That's almost exactly the experience I've had. I wouldn't say the nurse was dismissive or antagonistic to me - she just wanted to put me straight on drugs, gave me the same leaflet (I think - she printed it from the internet in front of me; I've still got it around somewhere...). She was very reluctant to take my BG on the spot, even though I explained I'd already started to take steps to reduce my sugar & do more exercise from the day I got the "See me re: Glucose" letter, but at least my reading convinced her to not push for the drugs...
Since then, I've had a letter demanding I have an eye test (done, 2x eyes present and correct - one left, one right), then a letter demanding I have a foot test (done: ditto, only lower down), and since then: diddly-squat.
Ditto. In fact, the nurse said I wouldn't need a BG meter. Thank goodness this forum was here to put me straight, eating to the meter (as opposed to my previous regime of eating by the metre) is, for me, the best way for me to track what's going on with my diabetes. I reckon I must have spent over £250 on test strips since I bought it, 9 or so months ago.
At the risk of sounding like a stuck record, ditto again.