Its a mystery to me Susan.i'm afraid i set out with good intentions, writing everything down, then its not embedded in my routine-testing but not in a good pattern.i went right back to the start of the book northener suggests-first year of type 2 diabetes and trying to sort out my head. I thimk whats happened is i have stuff from diabetes uk which serms to be based on potions of this and that, carbs n calories book, and recipe books.
Carol - Forgive me if I'm not interpreting things correctly, but I think what you're saying is that you find yourself in a bit of a muddle, with conflicting information on carbs, in particular? I know, initially at least, I found the conflicting information from respected sources like the NHS and some diabetic charities and/or websites unhelpful, to put it politely. I wasn't alone in that and you're not alone in that. One day (in a pink and fluffy land, far, far away,) we may just find we have one message, which could be more helpful to diabetics. That message, to my mind, wouldn't be fully diet based, but that's a whole separate rant!
Let me make a suggestion to you, for a way forward, which hopefully will give you a way of consistently recording what you do, and getting you immediate feedback on your performance, that you can review after a week or two, then tweak as necessary?
How about, if you haven't already, you set up an account on MyFitnessPal (MFP). It is available on the PB, at
www.myfitnesspal.com, or as a phone or tablet app from the usual places. Use MFP to record everything you eat and drink. It seems a bit of a faff to begin with, but once you have your staple meals in there it takes moments to update. Literally moments. I have used this from the outset and still keep my diary today, as I find it sort of keeps me from having just one more thing, several times a day! (Not that anyone else might ever consider such a thing.
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Alongside that, keep records of your testing. I used an app for that for ages, but now (lazily), I just refer to my meter. Most meters, provided they are set up properly, record the time and date of a test, so you can go back and look, and they usually are able to work out averages over 7, 30 and 90 days, which gets useful after a while.
Just start off by making your best efforts in terms of what you are eating, but testing every meal. So, testing as you start to eat, then two hours later. Your MFP will record your carbs and calories for you, and your testing will give you your blood feedback.
Don't make lots of changes to begin with. Have a week or so, just doing as you have been, and that should help show up what's going on and whether you have any specific culprits in making your bloods higher than you would like. Once you see for yourself that x, y or z food is affecting you, you can look for alternatives. If there's nothing particularly horrendous (although many find they have at least one horror story.), then you can look at your average total carbs and calories over the previous week or two and decide if carbs or calories, or both need to be trimmed back a bit.
I found doing things in that way took a lot of pressure off me thinking about it what seemed like every minute of every day, because I had other things to be getting on with too, and over thinking wasn't helping my cause at all.
Just try investing a bit in yourself, and you'll get there. Most folks find after a bit of trial and error they can make some progress, but some people also find that their body just isn't able to recover quite so well and they might need a bit more medical support than their initial prescriptions provide. There's no shame in that, or no big worry, but at least you would have the documented evidence to take to your Doc to explain what's going on and what you have tried.
Do try not to get tied into the mantra of "I only want to eat x gr of cabs a day" because someone else does. You're not them.
Really good luck with it all.