Northerner
Admin (Retired)
- Relationship to Diabetes
- Type 1
I am type two. Last week I went with two retired colleagues to visit another retiree who is a wonderful cook as is her husband. I've come home absolutely fed up as I was nagged all the time. Why is it when I say "No thank you" I'm made to feel I'm making a fuss. "Go on have a little bit, it won't do any harm" When I did succumb the biggest bit of baked Alaska was put in front of me. I only said about a desert spoonful would do. I didn't eat it all of course just enough to stop the nagging. Next day lunch out and no pud for me , but they insisted as it was in with the price so I ordered a fruit salad and when it came said they could share it between them. I'm quite a happy wee wifey not having puds and sweets and my pals really are nice people but seem to have a thing about sweet gooey food. Whew glad I got that off my chest.
I think it's partly guilt that they are having something 'sinful' so they want you to collude with them - the same thing happens when you say you don't want a cigarette when you have stopped, or a drink when you are on the wagon!