Hello
@Devonboy1965 and welcome to the forum.
I hope you have already realised that what is 'healthy' for a healthy person, isn't often healthy for a Type 2 diabetic (or even a Type 1 diabetic).
Diabetes.org.uk still has some way to go before they fully recognise this. However in this forum as well as in the other UK diabetes forum, it is well known that there are a few ways of getting Type 2 into remission and that while none of them will be certain to work for an individual, each of them has around a 50% chance of working, so overall the odds are in your favour.
My personal preferences in order of most to least:
1. Low Carb way of eating with high protein and moderate (traditional fats) with no calorie restriction.. This can be anywhere from around 130 gms of carbs (net carbs but including starches & fruit as well as sugars) down to Keto which is almost zero carbs. Decide how low to go based upon your Blood Glucose meter (if you don't have one - then get ones and test before each meal & then 2hrs after first bite aiming for an increase in Blood Glucose of 2.0 mmol or less from the meal.
2. Fasting (if you are obsese) - see books and videos by Dr Jason Fung.
3. If overweight ( some Type 2's like me were always slim) an 800 calorie per day diet (can be either 'Newcastle Diet' ( shakes based) or on e of Dr Michael Mosely's 800 calorie real food diets).
4. Again only if obese - gastric bypass surgery. You may think this is a certain cure- but it's not since it can be 'gamed' so the success rate is still only around 50%.
I suggest trying Low carb first because it does no harm and your resting metabolism remains isn't reduced (unlike calorie controlled diets which make it harder and harder to keep weight off).