Hi KateF
"Appointments outside working hours"? I would attend these if I could, but none of my various health professionals offers them. I have to turn up at the time given to me or risk being kicked off their list. The GP is particularly threatening about this, demanding I attend "prescription reviews" (as if I have somehow been cured since the last pointless appointment) and annual reviews with them, despite the fact that I already attend regular reviews at the hospital. If I do not attend the additional GP appointments, they do not give me my insulin. My hospital and surgery are not near my work, I usually need about an hour to get there and get back by bus. For my annual review the letter tells me to arrive half an hour early so the nurses can take my blood. But then I get there, and they take blood in plenty of time before the appointment, and I have to wait for that half an hour until the appointment time and then another half an hour or more until the doctor sees me, they are always very late. It seems we are between a rock and a hard place sometimes, doctors demand we attend when they want us to, employers want us to attend when they want (ie outside working hours). If doctors were ever on time, or could ring us and tell us they were running half an hour behind schedule so we could leave work later, it might help. If we are even five minutes late from traffic, our appointment is cancelled. Yet it is Ok for doctors to keep us waiting for half an hour or more. Last annual review I spent most of the afternoon at the hospital just for them to take my blood and weight, and a five minute appointment with the doctor. If appointments were available outside working hours, I would gladly attend them. Instead doctors want me to spend time sitting waiting at their clinic while I am supposed to be working. It would be more convenient to attend outside working hours, I would not have to race out of work to get my repeat prescription before the surgery closes, for example.
Basically what I am saying is it is not our fault if doctors demand all these appointments in working hours and hold us to ransom. Luckily my employer is generous and my health is ok, don't know what I would do if I got ill or moved to a less tolerant employer.
Kaz, I have sympathy for you. I would suggest talking to your doctor and asking for a letter explaining your health problems. Is there any way you can reduce your hours or work on a flexi basis until you feel better, or maybe work from home? It seems very strict to discipline you and not try to work out a compromise, if someone is a hardworking loyal employee and is suffering ill health, their employer should try to help them. Stress can definitely affect diabetes and make any problems worse, since it makes your blood sugars go up and down, so by doing this and causing you more stress, your employer is making things much worse, when the aim for both of you should be to reduce your stress and get you well enough to go back to work. Did you declare your diabetes when you got the job (or when diagnosed if that happened later)? If your employer was aware of your condition then they should make reasonable adjustments under the DDA as I understand it.