Welcome to the forum
@Lisa1301
Yes! So many members arrive feeling quite shaken, overwhelmed and shocked by their diagnosis. It can completely knock you sideways.
But diabetes is generally a slow-moving foe, and you have time to come to terms with things, to experiment, and to begin to find your way through the maze of options.
Diabetes, as you will discover, can be fickle and surprisingly individual - so while there might be general approaches and tactics that can be suggested (this is slow release... that causes spikes), you’ll need to check and work out how (and if!) they work that way for you.
You might like to keep a food diary for a week or two. Noting down everything you eat and drink along with a reasonable estimate of the amount of carbohydrate in the meals and snacks
This will give you an idea of which foods and meals are the main sources of carbs in your menu. And may highlight some ‘low hanging fruit’ - some easy early targets for tweaks and changes.
It’s best to make changes to your menu gradually - partly because they need to be sustainable long term, but also because very rapid and sudden changes to blood glucose levels are harder on the fine blood vessels, and changing things more gently will give your body time to adapt.
Keep asking questions, and let us know how you get on
🙂