I wonder what your qualifications are for such a long condemnation… My consultant is one of the most well known endocrinologists in Germany and said in our first meeting that I will know more about my personal condition than he ever would.
I would guess then the same as yours, none at all. Because we both know less than Gill or or nurse, which is why it is dangerous for either of us to make such definitive statements about what is best for her.
Dismissing a nurse's ability, when you have not even heard what she is trying to achieve or why, is irresponsible. There is a difference between questioning something and advising someone to ask for clarification, and flat out telling them they should effectively ignore professional advice tailored specifically to them.
It well may be bad advice, but you only know what Gill described. But you do no know what the nurse actually said, or why, nor are you qualified to speak to all the different aspects that lead to that advice.
I never offered any advice to Gill because I am not qualified to do so. Which is why I only addressed my post to you and not Gill.
But I have various long term conditions and plenty of experience with health issues. Which includes over two decades online of knowing from experience how dangerous it is when people diagnose others from posts or emails, especially when with no qualification other than their own subjective experience. Or they make definitive statements about what is right or wrong for someone's care, casting doubt on professional advice, and causing confusion on who to trust. And in particular with regards to the mental health implications of doing so.
I apologized to Gill in case the impression I got from her threads is wrong, because I freely admit I do not and am not qualified to know. But I have enough experience of seeing such things to base that impression of, and to try and understand what the nurse was aiming to achieve. Which could also be wrong, and I have had some very bad experiences to not blindly trust anyone. But before making any judgements about anyone I try to make sense of things from their perspective. And it seems to me there is a valid meaning to what the nurse is trying to achieve.
But playing doctor on the internet is dangerous, so I will not offer advice beyond sharing and relating my experiences and being clear that is what I am doing. But I will always call out those who contradict professionals without the qualifications, experience, and knowledge of a patient to justify their claim to know better. Because it is dangerous and I have seen the damage it does. And the length of my condemnation is because I do not just make statements without justifying them.