Hello
@Taffyboyslim,
My advice is to pat yourself firmly on your back for the great progress you've made so far. You've reduced your HbA1c to 51, as posted by you on the 17th Dec and that alone is really terrific. That puts you just into the official Diabetes diagnosis of 48 and only a little above. You have not been doing "
something right" but rather doing "
everything right".
Finger prick tests consistently 10 and above are not ideal, but they are
far from dreadful. A slow and steady recovery back into an even lower HbA1c is a great deal kinder on your body than a dramatic fall AND whatever you are doing now
HAS to be sustainable by you into the future.
Reading back a little bit, one thing that you could consider doing is to be a bit more systematic with your FP testing routine: test immediately before eating and as close to 2 hrs after with the intention of getting a steady series of results showing that your post meal readings are no more than 2-3 mmol/L above your starting level. If they are repeatedly not so then you have found a meal choice that your body does not manage well. Then either change a higher carb item for a lesser one, or try a reduced meal size.
There will always be the odd rogue pair of readings. Our bodies are extraordinarily complex and susceptible to contrary results just because our bodies are managing so many other hidden or just unnoticed bits of business keeping us alive. Perfect metabolism does not exist - in anyone still alive!
If this is too much hassle and interference into your daily life for every meal, just do this for breakfasts until you've got the measure of those. Then stop testing for breakfasts and take the paired readings for your lunches and once you've got those sorted move on to your evening meals.
Lastly be kind to yourself. You getting stressed about this IS NOT HELPING. Stress invariably , just on its own raises blood glucose. I do understand this next observation is easy said and much, much harder to do - I've been here. Somehow you need to find a way of coming to terms with your situation, somehow relax into accepting you have T2 diabetes, somehow stay calm / chilled / or whatever word you choose and somehow work with yourself to monitor (repeatable test routine) and adjust without getting angry about yesterday's results not being perfect.
Try and see all of this in a positive light: your T2 was spotted and diagnosed before really bad problems arose [my late brother lost both legs to his diabetes; arguably his own neglect caused his first amputation, but the 2nd leg was steadily deteriorating for 12 months, despite everyone trying to prevent that] [ he was T2 and didn't succeed in managing his BG until permanently confined to a wheelchair and needing a hoist to get himself in and out of bed, forced him to eat better and test more - but then too late!] . Your latest HbA1c confirms what great progress you've already made and far from you finding this all depressing you
are making a difference and try to be
upbeat about this.
Apologies if I'm preaching - but you asked for advice! Good luck for 2024.